A request to new members

By Professor2010

@Professor2010 (20162)

India

July 2, 2010 12:16am CST

Every day I receive ‘add friend’ requests, some are from very new members, I add them,

at the next moment a PM comes telling me to join this site or that under their referral, I hate this.

I always tell you I have no time for any online work or PTR/PTC/SURVEY sites etc Such PM is headache for me. If I get any such, I will be bound to report mylot administration and delete from my friend list too. Do you get any such message, don’t you feel irritated? Please share your views on this issue.

Professor

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34 responses

@angelitete (7)

• Bulgaria

2 Jul 10

I hate this way to make a couple referrals. When I become a friend request from user that I do not know. I just reject it. Ya this idea is good. Report to mylot administrator and we will see what he will make.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for sharing your views. Welcome to mylot.

Cheers.

Professor

k sridharprasad

@yugasini (12893)

• Secunderabad, India

2 Jul 10

hi bhuwanji, i too receive add friend requests regularly,but i am accepting each and every request,some times i may get message also stating that join in some sites,i will tell frankly stating that if i have already joins,i say sorry ,if not immediately i will register in the sites,now my friends list also increasing,have a nice day

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Hello yugasiniji, hopeyou are fine Thanks for sharing your valued opinion. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@marguicha (222325)

• Chile

2 Jul 10

I think that both measures are right and are what I have done. Erase them as friends as they are not friends I would like to have and report them. I do share links with friends but that is by mutual consent. What you are talking about is spamming.

Have a nice day!

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for response friend. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@oldchem1 (8132)

•

2 Jul 10

I certainly do sir!!

This happens far too often. I always accept friends, if they have a low number I just take it that they are new members and are wanting to make new friends on here, I was new myself not all that long ago and I was always pleased when people accepted me onto their friends list. However when I accept someone and straight away I get such a message as you describe I do feel used and annoyed. It is this type of member who spoils myLot for me.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

You are right friend,, Thanks for sharing. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@nina_khan (749)

• Pakistan

2 Jul 10

Hello professor, yes you are right i have noticed some new users doing that to me too and i found that very stupid too. i deleted them and report one of them too. but as you said people here are doing that thing. they send you friend's request and does that too you. take care of your self

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks you so much khan. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@edwardjoy2000 (2387)

• United Arab Emirates

2 Jul 10

HAHAHA.......I know i have just joined and i also recieved a few.

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• Philippines

3 Jul 10

Haha golden rule don't accept friend request.

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@mgreco_1988 (18)

• United States

5 Jul 10

Noted.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

No problem in accepting, i accept next delete.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@GardenGerty (160483)

• United States

3 Jul 10

That has started happening a lot lately. I hate it if they do not even post anything, and request I join a site. I also dislike them posting discussions about the sites, asking us to join. MyLot will clear them out fast, though.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Hi friend, you are a senior member, i honor your opinion.. Thanks . Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@srganesh (6340)

• India

3 Jul 10

Cool down Professor2010! They have not done anything wrong by sending PM like that. If they have started something like that in a post, then definitely it is against guidelines and you can report it. But PM can be of any invitation and it is not considered spamming, I hope. Just ignore them or delete them from your list.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for your advise ganeshji. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

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@Canellita (12029)

• United States

4 Jul 10

I used to get those. I just ignored them. If the person persists in annoying people they will have their account deleted.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for response. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@tigeraunt (6326)

• Philippines

4 Jul 10

hi professor, i have had a few and i reply to them i have no time. but it is in bulk like say 10 to 15 a day, then it is really a headache. i guess u just delete them and your problem solved.

have a nice day. ann

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for sharing your views dear. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

• Canada

5 Jul 10

That's so annoying and definitely a headache. It's such a waste of time having to filter out spam. I haven't had any messages like that sent to me on myLot (yet) but it's happening to me a lot especially on Facebook and Twitter lately.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for sharing your experience in twitter and FB. Welcome to mylot.

Cheers.

Professor

• India

4 Jul 10

I agree with you @Professor2010, I am a new member and wants to have as many friends as possible, but do not like them to tell me to join their site. But after becoming a good and close frien then I can not say that

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a request to new members

@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Welcome enjoy this site earn, god bless you Thanks for sharing.

Cheers.

Professor

• United States

5 Jul 10

Hi Professor2010, This is great information. I am very green to this website and I am still learning the ins and outs about it. So just knowing that you can add friends and that some may not be interested in anything other than spam mailing the heck out of your inbox then I have learned something new. Thank you for venting your dislike it has been informative. ~Whitcomb

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

I am happy you liked it Thanks . Welcome to mylot and my discussions.

Cheers.

Professor

@junioragogo (1)

•

6 Jul 10

yeah

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Welcome

@TexLadyPj (1328)

• United States

3 Jul 10

Herro Professor2010 I am not a new member, however I do not ask to be a friend so I can spam. I ask to be a friend if I think I can help a person. I have received a few solicitations, I simply delete them It isn't worth my effort to take the time to report to admin. I simply delete the PM and friendship. Prosperous mylotting

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for sharing your views friend. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@ANTIQUELADY (36440)

• United States

3 Jul 10

That aggravates me to. When this happens i go right to my friends page & delete them. Happy weekend to u.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for sharing your feelings my senior friend. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

AjaySinghBaghel

@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)

• India

2 Jul 10

I have som esimilar experience, me too getting add request from new mylotters, I welcome all of the new members on mylot and at the same time do not expect too many private messages for referal and other bonus things. Its good to be connected on MyLot and enjoy discussion along with making money but using this site for other purpose is not my idea. Even I do not have much time to visit many sites. Its long weekend and I am back on MyLot.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Thanks for sharing your views Ajay. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@candyfairy21 (2039)

• Philippines

2 Jul 10

Hi Prof, I do get a lot of messages like that from new users. and it's kinda irritating. It would be okay if you just send them a message like welcome to mylot and here are tips to earn money from mylot esp.when they are asking how to earn in here but asking me to join this site and become their referral can sometimes be irritating as we my email gets flooded with this kind of requests. Uggghhh it wold be okay to send referral link if we ask for them not like shove it in our faces.

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

hi candy, it is irritating Thats why i started this discussion.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor

@lys1280023 (108)

• China

3 Jul 10

I am new and if I receive those messages,I will be really mad.It really troubles people.I think myLot is a place where we can learn things but not where we earn money.We need a clean environment.Good luck~~~

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

Here you can earn too besides learning a lot. Thanks for response. Welcome .

Cheers.

Professor

@Terrencehenry6 (181)

• Jamaica

3 Jul 10

Trst me you are not the only 1 i get them too, but your responce to it is very funny

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@Professor2010 (20162)

• India

6 Jul 10

What is funny friend? Thanks for response. Welcome always.

Cheers.

Professor