how can i say break-up with my girl?
By ferry2046
@ferry2046 (146)
China
July 2, 2010 3:12am CST
I graduated and has gained a fairly nice offer.So did my girl-friend.However,we will work in different cities,Suzhou and Beijing.You know,there is more than 10 hours' railway from Suzhou to Beijing.
Now I'm on the brink of giving up this relationship.In bad times,when offer that precious comes along,it's not yours to say what the choice is.
In the meantime,I 'm reluctant to say the word break-up.So is she.
Both of us avoid this topic.Maybe letting fate does the job is the best choice.
1 response
@marvinstienz (18)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
I think you are still in love with your girl. The only problem is you are having a long distance relationship which is not convenient for you. I understand that its not easy to be in a relationship where someone who is important to you is not near you. But you need to understand she need to work in order to survive in this life. We just cant live out of love always. We still need efforts in order to gain something for ourselves.
If you are tired of that set-up it would better if you will talk on the different ways in making your relationship dynamic. After that, I'm sure you will not get bored and tired with your set-up and she will also exert effort in communicating with even she is so far.
I don't advice for break ups! But if you really want that to happen, have the courage to tell her that your relationship is not working anymore and its inconvenient for both of you. Avoiding from talking, will not help you solve the problem. Good communication matters in a relationship.
