How to make a better lover to your partner?
By add_im
@add_im (2712)
Philippines
July 2, 2010 4:15am CST
I've been trying to research through the net about the said subject on how to be a better partner and I just want to get some of your advices and suggestions.
7 responses
@BambooPanda13 (867)
• United States
3 Jul 10
I always tell people that the very first number one thing is good communication. You are already lovers, or married too, so you shouldn't be embarrassed about talking about things. My boyfriend is 25 years older than me and we've even talked about what if he needs Viagra some day. He wasn't embarrassed or offended by it and says he will gladly take Viagra if he has too.
Open communication! Just ask your lover what they enjoy and listen. They should do the same for you. During your intimate sessions be vocal about what you are enjoying or if you want them to do something specific. Saying things like: "Right there" " A little harder" "Softer" "Move higher" etc. lets your partner know what you want or where you want it while you are in the act.
Discuss fantasies. Just be open about receiving your partner's fantasies. If you don't want to do it they should respect you and it should remain a fantasy. If you are open to playing along then maybe you will find you enjoy it just as much as they do.
Be open, communicate, and both partners should be willing to give to the other.
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@slickvash (22)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
i think you dont have to research on the net. instead, research on your partner. know what your partner likes and make them happy.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
2 Jul 10
right said mate....yes we nned to resaerch our partner. think about the little things that make her happy.
@akiadranem (403)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
Good communication is essential in just about everything in a relationship. especially in love-making. you should be open to one another. telling what you like to do, and what your partner likes, too. be giving to your partner, as it will likely be reciprocated. and don't worry about it too much. i'm sure he's not complaining :)
@kreinch (11)
• India
2 Jul 10
Be gentle, don't rush, be friendly, anyway earn your parner's friendship before having an affair.
@slickvash (22)
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
i think you dont have to research on the net. instead, research on your partner. know what your partner likes and make them happy.
