people in our lives

hello,my dear friend!welcome to mylot! thank you for taking time to respond on my post. oh?you're a snobbish and shy person? i may say,i am like that at times. yes,when it's old classmates or co-workers,i also see to it that they are the ones who will greet first or if i can,i would definitely look at them closely for me to recognize if they were the ones i knew.sometimes i have been greeting the wrong person which makes me feel ashamed.haha there are times i do recognize them and they are the ones who also take a look at me then we'll just point at each other and say "hey,how are you?" then the conversation goes. you know,you just have to look at them first if they recognize you aas well,then start asking.but if you have doubts they don't know you,or they are more snobbish than you,just leave them.just easy as that! people do change after years. i think it's not wrong,you just have to recognize first before greeting them. i was like you for some times.there was this time someone greet me but i never greet him back.maybe his way of greeting isn't appropriate enough and i'm like a snobbish one when it comes to strangers,

Oh yes I don't mind them, I wouldn't stoop to their level. It's so easy to deal with them, I just pretend I never see them if our roads crosses.

hahaha,yeah,what if they talked to you then? would you answer back?

yes,how about those people you get annoyed,what do you do?just ignore them? do you talk to them if you have no choice? how to deal with them?

yes,it's very polite to smile and nod at them specially to make your outlook beautiful in life. i also used to chat for a while if we really have time.depends on people i'm talking.sometimes i also smile when i happen to see someone smile at me though i don't know them personally.

yes,it was exactly meant for you! hehehe you requested it,right? same here,i also used to greet someone i know from streets like nodding or simple smile or nod.but when it's someone i get irritated,better to avoid them.hehe hahahha,well,there are people like that,you just can't seem to avoid them and try to relax yourself not to kill anyone,heheh yup,their presence makes you sick sometimes.even without doing anything harm to you. but i can be sure,you're kinda jealous to your husband's secretary. i myself had someone here i see almost everyday which keeps my blood boiling like you.he used to be our neighbor's sister who used to visit most of the time and he keeps on staring at me.peeking wherever i go.really annoying!

really? haha then thanks for starting this one for me...hehe actually i really greet people that i know when i saw them in other places but when they are people that i don't really like, its either i avoid them or just give them a nod as acknowledgement. but if they don't greet me or don't even smile, then i don't do as well. sometimes if i am really annoyed, i let them feel it. i don't pretend to be nice. haha they will be seeing my 'maldita' side if they get into my nerves. actually i am not jealous with my husband's secretary, she's already on her 40's. what i just don't like with her is her attitude sometimes and her being noisy. and i don't know. haha, he just wanted to get your attention, maybe planning to court you! hehe but just afraid of you. hehe

hahah,i guess you really are a "maldita" one,my dear sister! lucky,i haven't seen that side of you yet.but for sure when i see that side of yours,it would be as normal as what you are now.hehe awh,so you don't like her noisiness,hehe cause you just want yourself to be noisy,not her,haha.nice one,sister! NO! he's not afraid of me.huh? uhmmmm...in some cases i would say so,but overall i think no.he used to talk to me when they are new here.and i talked to him back then,but he keeps on intruding my private life.i just don't like it.we are not that close so,i let him see my bad side.i even shouted at him for being too close,which i don't like. yes,i think he likes me but since i don't like his too "closeness" or kinda "presko" attitude,i just don't want to talk nor look at him.but everytime i bumped on him,i just don't have a choice but to talk to him,only little lines,if it really needs to.haha i even blocked some windows for him not to see me when i was going out of restroom of course. he used to be "maniac" that's why i just don't like talking to him.but sometimes i get angry or irritated when my father keeps on talking to him.well,whatever it is,i just hoped my father don't like him for me,hahah

ah,so your neighbors don't like to be friendly you at all.that's what it think.or maybe they are kinda annoyed at you,oh,please don't be mad at me here.i'm just concluding.i really don't know you personally,so i'm just saying what i am thinking here.i guess it's ok to be friendly but there were really people who don't like to be disturbed or doesn't really bother to say hi back and how are you.it's just like that.it's part of ;life.not all people will be willing to be your friend. like in here,i always wanted to have new friends here but for some cases others don't want me to be their friends.i can understand that.we all have freedom to choose what we have to...

yeah,there were such people,but if you have no choice,do you talk to them? say your trapped to be with them,what will you do?

hi there! well,what about those people around who gets you irritated? don't say you don't have one think deeper,better get out of neighbors instead,maybe workmate,schoolmate,people in the streets,who else?