Why is it?
By Royalty10
@Royalty10 (196)
Guyana
July 2, 2010 2:47pm CST
What is this? You meet a guy (or girl) and in five minutes you are sure you have met you soul mate. but what do you know in 6 months or so you are bored out of your mind or worst just want time out to clear your head or something.
Now why do you think that is?
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5 responses
@jhnmikala (152)
• United States
2 Jul 10
I am not sure but or me it's just the opposite. I did not think I had met my soul mate at first but as I got on into the relationship it got better and better. I have now been married to my husband for almost 13 years.
I take it back that I don't know. I think that people do that because at first you see the things you have in common and then as you get on into the relationship you notice that everything isn't quite as good as what you thought it would be with that person.
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@Royalty10 (196)
• Guyana
7 Jul 10
So you never feel bored and want some time out or something like this? Well if not my hat off to you. you are fortunate.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
3 Jul 10
When you first meet someone you are very attracted to him/her and very infatuated. This is sometimes mistaken for love which is why people should date for at least a year before getting serious about the relationship. Physical attraction/infatuation fades with time but true feelings don't.
@mEisky (824)
• Philippines
3 Jul 10
Whoa. for me, it really takes a lot of time before I can say that he's my SOULMATE. Maybe, what happened to you is that, you were only attracted to him. Just simple as that. Because if you really have a deep feelings for him at that time, why all of a sudden, after 6 months, it changed? If you really love him, whatever happens, YOU WILL ALWAYS DO LOVE HIM. Because true love don't change. It just stays the same 
or better yet, change foe the better 
Best of luck.
or better yet, change foe the better
Best of luck.@Royalty10 (196)
• Guyana
7 Jul 10
Lol. Well you may be right, sometimes we get too caught up in physical attraction and then it takes a while to see the person.
@sweetloveforeve (13118)
• Portugal
12 Jul 10
love happens through many ways. sometimes you just need to talk with the person for a bit to like them but sometimes it takes more time. it all depends also of the person feelings^^ and what you share in that bit. for example with friends there are those that you know since long long and share things with them and then you meet one and all you shared with your friends for many years you share with that person in one month for example^^ relations are not about time but about how the person is and how the person makes us feel^^ so it can happen you can know someone for few time and love them so much more than a person that you know since many years^^
