what would you do if your BESTFRIEND confess that he/she is gay/lesbian?

you know what,i have a bestfriend also and she has this sister who turns to be a brother,hehe and i haven't noticed it for sometime but when she/he confessed that she was a lesbian,okay,the i calm down.she has somehow got closer to me and seems like i don't know how to handle such situation.well,at first i want to stop being friends with her.but then i realized she already had girlfriend.but yeah,i still kept distance from her.

Hello niairen01! Just because you found out your bestfriend is lesbian doesn't mean that you have to avoid her or something. It really depends. If you think that she's too touchy already, then it's scary. But for me, I don't really care whether my friend is gay or lesbian as long we have this respect to each other.

If you're truly friends with someone, their sexuality shouldn't scare you. You should have the kind of open relationship where you can talk about the situation. If they're your friend they'll know you are not "interested" and if they are your friend, and respects you, they wouldn't risk hurting your friendship by putting moves on you. I'm sure it was hard enough for your friend to share her secret, it's good she didn't have to loose a friend as a result of it.

Hi there. of course i'd be very shocked to hear it for the first time from a bestfriend or a very close friend. We'd still be friends though, even after hearing the news. It feels funny though, especially if you've been friends for a very long time and it's only after years that the person finds out about the truth...

Interesting.I really wanna have a friend like this,haha~~It may really make me shocked and I like the violent mood.It must be interesting. You are a lucky girl.

Its nice to hear that you are still friends. I believe that people should not be discriminated based on sexuality. Its their own feelings and choice to be the way they want. If my friend says something like that, I wouldn't mind it at all. I would just be happy that he/she trusted me and shared his little secret with me.

I could never leave a friend after she/he confesses that they are gay. That doesnt change our friendship or the person they are. My best friend is like my sister and I wouldnt turn my back on her, I may point out cute girls to her and what not like i do my male friends.

I don't care how anyone lives their life as long as they respect what I believe in too....like I am not a lesbian...so don't hit on me! I work and am friends with a lesbian...she is a wonderful caring person....

i wouldnt care if one of my best friends or friends came out and told me that. i would tell the guys hey its on you but dont touch me in an unproper way. like you im not thier type. but my nephew and wife cousin was worry about telling me they were gay. i still love them and i have friends who are too. i like them for the person they are and how they respect me..

I have a few bi friends and have dated some bi people and it has not really bothered me to know. Dating a bi girl was pretty cool I met her gf a few times and usually seemed get her after she was wither her gf. It was pretty good. Having s bi friend now doesn't bother me she usually will tell me about a girl if she thinks they are hot. She hit on my ex gf a few times and my ex started liking her more but then my best friend told me that she wasn't interested any more.

My childhood friend told me he was gay. I was tremendously shocked. We were at his house and he had poured me a strong drink. Another of his gay friends was with us. We were standing in the kitchen, and he gave a toast that was a bit weird and did not make any sense. I think maybe the toast was a diversion of some sort to give him courage. Then he told me. I thought he was joking. His friend told me he was gay as well, and I drank the shot and asked for another one. We all burst out laughing at that. Then I realized he had asked me a bunch of questions about the bible and being gay and the church. I had answered them the best I could and referred him to a pastor and online helps. I think he thought I would have judged him harshly, but since he had asked me for a year or so about the church and gays, he was seeking out knowledge. All I can do is pray for the best for him. The weird thing is that he notices men in a public place and talks about them. It is a bit strange for me I admit.

I have had this happen to me twice in my life and yes it's a scary experience at first. The first of my best friends to confess this to me, we were in high school in like the 9th or 10th grade. Once she confessed this to me, I cut off our friendship immediately. Because I was very much against being gay back in 2001-2002. We never regained our friendship again. And, even though she only experimented with it and isn't that way now, I just can't see us being friends. My other best friend to turn gay during our friendship. (I was older and wiser by this point.. 18 or 19 instead of like 15) I didn't turn my back on her. I knew before her family even knew because she told me and our mutual best friend first. Even when her family turned their back on her and her brother punched her in the face, I was still in her corner. Only because I had known her since she was wearing dresses and things like that, such a drastic change. But, I never questioned it and stuck by her side. We aren't friends anymore now though because she wasn't in my corner when I needed her.