Why some people are unhappy always?

hi jack, I believe that some people are unhappy in their lives because they never felt the contentment they wanted in life, or may have not accepted the life they have now and had opted to kill their own life because that is the best thing they think would end all their unhappiness. These people are in serious trouble in their lives, they may have accepted always that negative thought rather than being positive always that they can be someone new and improve they lives. Some people lack hopes in changing their lives because maybe the persons they loved had left them alone either for some valid or unjustifiable reasons they cannot accept. Some also are unhappy because they have serious medical illness like depressions that lead to mental disorder and giving them no sense of clear thought as of right thinking. But, I agree also that some are unhappy in their lives because that is what they feel although others see them stable in life. This is a matter of own personal preferences on thoughts and how to accept life for them, for I do believe that people are changing, but it depends on their approach in life and the people around him, which has a great contributing factor in his life. If a person feels unhappy and never would make any effort or change in life to avoid being unhappy, then the problem is in the person himself and what he thinks about his life and the essence of his living in this earth. Happy mylotting

I think acceptance is the key. What have been given to you by God, you have to accept and treasure them. When people do not accept, that is the beginning of their problem... they will never be satisfied with their life and they forfeit what God gave them, their lives.

Hi smart jack: I think this is a very bad habitude people get with the time. Some people are always looking for the negative side of the situation and they don't know why but they are the main reason of theior un hapiness because there will always be something that is not right for them, or some reason why they don't enjoy what they want. I have seen this so many times and I have chosen in my case to be a happy man and I act according to this wish. Thanks for starting this discussion. Have a nice day. ALVARO

i agree with you but we are not in the liberty to judge why they commit such actions. People just to be more positive in their outlook to be happy. they have to see things in a thankful ways always no matter how depressing the matter is becaues God has a purpose for everything that happens in our life. We should be thankful ALWAYS. As in always. We are allowed to feel sad and cry but in the end of the day we should see the thing more positively as much as we can. We learn how to be contented, coz that is the only way to be complete and happy. Don't ask s much to what you need and can consume

I think acceptance is the key. What have been given to you by God, you have to accept and treasure them. When people do not accept, that is the beginning of their problem... they will never be satisfied with their life and they forfeit what God gave them, their lives.

The mental health and pharmaceutical companies are earning a lot of money these days concerning this subject. They will not be going out of business for lack of customers anytime soon. Because of money I do not believe they try to cure people as fast as possible either. There are many factors as to an individuals unhappiness. Until you have walked a few steps in their shoes it is impossible to understand their condition or the burden they have been carrying. I believe many people are unhappy because they are turned inward, concentrating on gratifying themselves with what this world offers. I do not claim to be an expert of any kind, but I do know whenever I felt down, what always changed my mood, came about when I would make some form of a positive contribution to an individual or a group of people without concern for how I would benefit. I also know that God made me for a purpose, and although that pupose is not always clearly defined, it brings me joy to know that He will never leave me nor forsake me.

well there are some that are negative thinkers. I for one usually avoid them and will not let their feelings hinder me from doing something.

People are unhappy because they can't find real happiness in life. We can be happy once in awhile but until we can't find our ultimate source of happiness we can never be completely happy.

Hi! I believe also that God created us for a purpose. Life is so precious and should be lived to the fullest. Each of us should be thankful to God for all His graces and blessings everyday. Just by mere waking up everyday is already a blessing so its better to stay positive and happy at the beginning of each and every day knowing that we're still alive. Most people are unhappy always because of different factors, poverty and sickness are one of those i guess. But i believe that we should count the gardens by the flowers, not the leaves that fall, count the success not the failures, count the blessings and not the problems so God shall bless us more. In every given situation, more when we are problematic, look upon others who have greater problems and you will simply think that you're much more luckier. Instead of saying "Hey God, i have a big problem everyone of us should say Hey problem, i have a big God." Good luck!

i can relate with this, as for myself, im not happy right now because i cant find a good job for me, i want to be a call center agent, but still need a lot to do to be like that or to pursue my dream,, then i want to find a person much deeper than a friend. someone who will teach me more , and give care to me, a special someone who i can depend on..

do we imagine that we could be the reason of their unhappiness?? no none of us think that way, lets imagine a man works hard but still unable to meet his needs, do u guys help him, Mostly would answer no,, then how u expect them to be happy after all that, what i think, directly or indirectly we are responsible for the disappointment of unhappy people.

I know you only has one chance at this life and shouldn't take it for granted, but what you need to remember some people on this world aren't as priveleged as others. Life for them is miserable and they have a struggle to go by each day. Other people who have everything may still not be happy because there is nothing else they want or need, therefor nothing more to look forward to. So many different reasons as why people aren't happy. Maybe something bad happened, maybe they are ill, maybe they lost something or someone, maybe there is no solution for them.

A man is what he thinks in his mind. I have been sad sometimes...but i dont let that get to my mind. I thing positive and always cheer. This makes my day. We decide what we want to be. We think happy thopughts then we will be happy. When we think sad we attract sadness in our lives.

I guess, one of the reasons why some people remain unhappy or are always unhappy is because of their ambitiousness. Dissatisfaction and longing for more than what they actually deserve goes next.

there are some people who are not happy with their life as they are not simply satisfied with what they have and long for more things they need to have that attitude for some extent but if it overexceeds then they cannot complete the tasks they are assigned and they remain unhappy

Yes,what you siad is just the truth.Some people are unhappy always.Maybe they can not open their heart to another people around them.Once they have unhappy things,they can not share them with others around them.They load the unhappy things by themselves.

I do believe that some people are unhappy always.The reason may be they fell that they are not secured or else fear of loosing any relationship in other words they expect some return from others thats why???they are always unhappy and will be dejected mode.Tks for the article :)

We have. Many people do lose hope. I would say that I am prone to depression (not going so far as a medical classification)when faced with what seem either never ending, or insurmountable, challenges. I'd not go so far as to take my life though, but have had to deal with a few that have threatened to. Be that only a cry for help or something more determined.