Moving on after a breakup

After a break up, it is always the moving on which is the goal. But, we need to pass through the stages, so that we will be able to achieve the real moving on. Between the break up and the moving on, there are stages to pass through. It is actually a process. You cannot definitely say that when you had broken up, you have to move on right away. It takes time, that is why we need to undergo the process of pampering acceptance then the willingness to move on. Do not rush meeting someone else or to have a new love. Hence, love will come and it is not to be chased. To have someone else after a break up is not proper because you tend to have a love on the rebound. It is not even a solution to have a new one when you have not undergone the stage of acceptance.

Good for you that you don't struck your mind over it. As for my experience, I had a very difficult time moving on after my last breakup considering that we dated for almost 6 years.. that's a lot of memories that I just can't easily take my mind off it. It is definitely not the easiest thing to overcome but I guess the only thing left to do is to move on .. it really takes time. It took me at least a year to finally conclude that I'm over it and that I have moved on. Having quick relationships after the breakup was my mistake because I know emotionally I wasn't ready yet and its just unfair for my new partner .. As far as learning goes, take time to let go of things before you enter in another relationship.. get involved in something else as you mentioned.. and in time, broken hearts will heal and that you can finally move on. Best of luck

well i think its more easy to bear eachother , other than bearing the pain of being aparted, life have to go on, time never waits for anyone, life would be normal once but you may not forget the time you spent with your partner

What you said about learning from your mistakes is true about breaking up. Although it is painful, at least you will know what not to do on your next realtionship