I was the fling!

@laydee (12798)
Philippines
July 4, 2010 8:08pm CST
5years. I was the fling. Could you believe that????
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10 responses
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
hi there.. wow how sad to know about that.. It really took you 5 years to know that you are just a fling? correct me if im wrong.It must have been difficult on your part. does the person has a girlfriend other than you?
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
They're on for about 3-4years now. Whew, it's really amazing how blind I was.
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
I'd throw tomatoes at him!
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I'd throw him rocks!
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
5 Jul 10
I'd believe it if I could SEE you. Post a picture here.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
That is the main thing! I'm not a fling-kind-of-a-girl! I am not skinny, nor am I a beauty queen nor a model!
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
6 Jul 10
Why do you think that only skinny models are put in this position. This happens to MOST of the population. Kinsey pointed that out in the 50's and since then the percentage of people who have affairs has risen.
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@fake_you (391)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
That is sad to hear. It is kind of weird, though. Did you not have the slightest hint that you are just a fling? You could have made this 5 years to 5 days. Still, he's a jerk. You surely deserve someone way better than him.
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@attente (986)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Sorry to ask this but how come you didn't know you're just a fling for 5 years. It took you that long to know about that? well sorry to hear that laydee. Dump that guy and look for someone better.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Whew I know.. Indeed I know.
@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
5 Jul 10
laydee, you seem angry, I guess you were really into this relationship. I think to be kept in the dark for 5 years is really sad.
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
I am angry, but I am more angry at myself for not having known!
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@iwrite (5034)
• Singapore
6 Jul 10
laydee, well he kept it from you, it is not your fault but I guess you felt silly. But it happens to all of us sometimes.
• India
28 Jul 10
That's really sad to hear. You try to proof that you can find better than what you have before. Be a lady of confident,be bold to face the world. Hundreds and thousand people may faced the same but still than they are living their life comfortably. So you just try to proof that you had true love for someone and share those feelings to young lovers, teach them love can wait for years. Don't worry there might be true lover waiting for you. Be relaxed and wait for your destiny.
@milfea (519)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
Man I didn't see this! What in the world! Men could be so cruel...I am so angry right now. Go out girl and see the world. The world is way better without him. We're right beside you, we're just right here.
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Get over it girl . Your too good and too hot for him . He does not deserve someon like you. I know it sounds repetitive already but It's time to love yourself girl. Your Prince Charming will definitely come for you one day. And when that times happen, I'm pretty sure the stupid guy who took you as a fling will be crying over his lost.
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
So, did he separate with you? just get him out of your life! for five years and those years weren't such a joke.i am a guy but i couldn't believe there are others who could really do this long term cheating and have a strong stomach to boot. i don't have balls for that because it's WRONG.i guess you have still a few years to catch on! five years eh
• Portugal
11 Jul 10
ohh thats so sad :( how could a guy do that to you for 5 years? and his gf also? did she find it out? :( that guy doesnt deserve to be neither with you neither with her. for five years he been with two girls at the same time what kind of guy was he? :( anyway i really am happy that you found out i cant imagine if you still were with him now not knowing what he was doing :( wish you find a guy that really loves you this time and that really cares for you ^^ you deserve it ^^