You will always find what you are looking for....

Sweetie, life in all is a simple concept. We just like to be different and make things harder on ourselves. We always get what we want or look for, whether good or bad. I have found what i have been looking for, but it seems more trouble than when i started. See, a simple concept. TATA.

hey i totaally believe in that theory! i read a few books about it too. though i must admit that it is sometimes hard to "obey" it, if you want only good thing happen to you. there are times when i am down (like now) so they say that you are attract not the good things. but it is hard to make myself happy, truely happy, so the good things will come along do you have any advice for me? have a great day!!

I do tend to believe that we are able to find whatever it is that we are looking for. In my life, I am looking for happiness and fun and for the most part I would say that is the way that my life is. However, even when there are certain things that we are looking for, there are going to be times that we find things that aren't within the confines of those things that we want to have in our lives. For example, I don't look for sorrow, but sometimes it does find it's way to me.

This is a thought provoking discussion, and I am not sure I am as deep a person as you are kiddo. :) But let me view it from my perspective. :) I am looking for a solution - so I guess I will find a solution as per what you say (ask and though shall receive). I am looking for a solution to my problems that will have no loopholes. I could sit and cry and think there is no way out of my problems just because I have not found it as yet. But that is not what I am doing. I am considering and seeking various ways out of my problems. So I guess I believe and hope there is a way out, and may be I have not found it yet, but I think eventually I will. I have not resigned to my fate otherwise I wouldnt be looking for that solution. Even at worst, I will give it a great fight verbal, physical, whatever. I am prepared for that. That means I am a positive person - yeah!

i believe to that. we are the masters of ourselves so we must be positive in our life to have a better feeling in doing things.

I was someone who always think positive and always be sure of the success of my work. I always get rid of feelings of sadness and are always trying to find something that makes my heart happy and excited. I do not want to live in a world that once was filled with sadness. Alhamdulillah with the way I always managed to reach my ideals.

I believe hundred percent in this theory biswa. THat is why our elders also advised us to always think of good things, say good words and believe that whatever is good will happen. We also know the story of Dharmaputra and Duryodhana going out to the world and coming in with their verdict of the world being full of good and bad people respectively. As for good things happening to positve people it is also their way of acceptance.FOR example I have seen very poor people being content and not complaining even when confronted by adversity. Recently our 32 year old niece passed away after a long struggle with neurofibroma.SHe has had more than 5 brain surgeries and a myriad number of stays in hospital.That child had such a positive attitude to life that she once remarked when she had to go into hospital for radiaton "Thank god ! it won't be the stupid ICU this time". She had undergone a lot of pain but she never used to complain.My father was another such man.I just marvel at their mindset and strength of character. People have a positve attiude and see good in everything and are hopeful. On the other hand a negative person has the negative attitude that does not appreciate even good things.It is not necessary that only bad things should happen to them or vice versa. As for what I would look for I am thankful for the countless belssings GOd has given me and I seek His grace till the end of my life.

ya i do believe in this theory its better if one has a good positive attitude and he/she goes that way it would help them excel in life too if you could be positive then your positive attitude could make others think positive and make the lives good and peaceful

ya i believe in this concept one has to have a positive attitude in his life and his positivity can actually spread like light that spreads from a single point to the whole room

Yes, every person has it's own mindset and if that person only believes what he thinks and not open his mind to other suggestions then he will surely lose some friends and even opportunities for change in his life. Everyone should have its own mindset but keep his mind open because there are other possibilities in the world.

You remind me of a saying I came across. I can't remember the words exactly but it meant "You are Right by saying Yes and you are not wrong either by saying No!". I personally feel that we are right to embrace whatever attitude we would like to for the moment because we eventually make it out to be. And that is applicable to life itself!

If your theory is right,life is an easy game to play ,but life isn't a easy busness to deal with,so many people who lived in dark world hardly find light,they are poor and unhappy.not every problem has an answer,there isn't unjust people in the world,it is only life is unjust and cruel. life is life and believing is believing.

This is the best post i have ever read on Mylot. Yes man is what he thinks. We always find what we are looking for, what we think of. If we think good we will get good, if we think bad then we will get bad.