What's the secret to happiness?
By dsrp82
@dsrp82 (676)
Brazil
11 responses
@topetotz (163)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
lol c'mon dude. you can be happy every time, just enjoy every thing that you have, every seconds of your life, every one that's close to you and most of all let God guide your way. You'll see it, you'll there's really no secret, its just you i think.
Thanks for the topic
Much respect
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@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
i've read this from somewhere before: "make the best of what comes and the least of what goes". i think we simply have to cherish what we have and stop looking for what we don't.
i'm not really sure why some things make us happy and some things don't. maybe it also has something to do with our standards and expectations. if we keep them low, we get satisfied easier. and maybe, satisfaction = happiness:-) i hope that helped.
and don't fret, 28 isn't old;-)
@fake_you (391)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Real happiness cannot be bought. Well, at least that is what most people say. I think all you need to do to be happy is to live your life each day as if it were your last. Live it well so that you will not have regrets in the future. Try to love and appreciate things around you. I think that there is no real secret to happiness. Don't try to search for it. If you try to live simply, you'll find yourself happy.
@Andyvil (793)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
I think this is the question every one is asking. It is actually a personal question only you can answer. What makes you happy depends on you. You will be surprised to know that a lot of the things you will enjoy are simple and free. Dig deep into your thoughts and think of the times when you are happy and why were you happy during those times.
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@jacquisison (16)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
law of attraction...have you heard or learned of that??? think of happiness and u will think of it...feel that u are happy and you will feel it...its all in the mind and heart...and try to do things u really wanted to do even for the risk of something...adventure and experience will fulfill your cravings...
=D
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@piscesgamer (88)
• India
5 Jul 10
Real happiness lies in selfless approach.True heart and commitment in any work you do then definitely you will feel happy.True happiness lies in helping others.
Let me give you one example:
A baby fish asked her Mother: Why can't we live on Earth?
Mother Fish : Earth is not the place for Fishes..it is made for SELFISHERS....
Tks for the article
:)
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@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
Happiness is when you achieved what ever you intended to do. How big or how little it may be. The satisfaction the we feel after a successful conversation, cooking, workout, etc. The amount of satisfaction is the amount of happiness. This is my opinion.
If your satisfied concludes that you are happy.,
@Boyetski (986)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
Then maybe you are not doing what you want. Maybe you are doing what you always need to do or you are oblige to do it or something. My friend if you dont know what the missing piece is, try to reflect and decide what you really want to do. Relationship, job, maybe you want to go into business..
@linju26baby (54)
•
6 Jul 10
my kind request to u is that.......... if u need happiness.. you have to gave it...
Give and take..
What u expect from others... u have to give it and take... am i right...
Also.. be simple.. and hope for a little only..
then if you gain,... u will be more happy because you will get more than you expected..
else if you dont get it it wont worry you much!!!!!!!!!!!!...
may God Give you plenty of happiness in life...
may God bless you..
@puccagirl (7294)
• Israel
6 Jul 10
It is discovering what makes YOU happy, because happiness does not mean the same thing to everyone. So think long and hard about that, and then strive for those things, no matter if it is a family of your own, a good job, travelling or whatever. Identify what you need and want in life in order to be happy!
@xiaomo3644 (55)
• China
6 Jul 10
Hey dsrp82,like you say I'm almost 25 and I also don't know yet. I believe that there're so many people wanting to konw how to be happy.Though I don't know the secret, I still have experienced the nice feeling . When I gain something after the effort, when I conquer the difficulties, When some kind people do me a favor,when some of my wishes come true……I suppose when the things happen following your heart and making others happy as well,you can get the happiness.
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 10
Happiness is when you feel good. Whether its from a smile or the laughter of a child. The happiness of seeing someone get over a major life hurdle. Watching your greatest sporting hero win an Olympic medal. The success of saving a life. Happiness can be so many things. The happiness of coming last in the hurdles race...the happiness of climbing a mountain or finishing your studies. The happiness of having a child. The happiness of smelling the scent of a flower.
HAPPINESS is HAPPINESS.
haha