Reason for loving someone

Before you learn to love someone there is something that attracts you to her/ him. Maybe that's what your girlfriend wants to hear. Sometimes girls want to hear what attracts their man. Instead of saying "I love you because..." you can rephrase it with the following, "The first thing that has attracted me to you is your *** and then when I get to know you better that's when I learned to love everything about you- no more no less. Everyday of my life I learn something new about you and each time it happens my love for you grows stronger. It's like I can't get enough of you. I want to learn more about you. You're like my fountain of knowledge. I will never get tired of loving you." Whew! That was long and for me it's so sweet.

hahaha! you have the same reason as my husband. and yes at first I really thought that His feelings was just nothing, I mean no reason at all? !! but as years passed by. I realized how true he was. How he just can't say any reason. if i were you. Let her read this..Love is something that you can't explain. Some people might make up some really cheesy reasons but behind it was unreal feelings,. so i guess you should let the her realized that.. or just let her read the responses in your discussion.. Goodluck!

i have this hopeless romantic line that answer the question well, "the day i figured out what i love you is the day that i don't love you anymore" somewhat i agree with this, sometimes when you are in love you become blind and dont see any thing, when you begin to see imperfections, and shortcomings then you are not starting to loose the grip of love and start noticing things.

You are right my friend. Let there be no reason to love your girlfriend. When a person falls in love, he or she never thinks why they are falling in love or what is the reason. It just happens. Please tell your girlfriend that having a reason to love means the love is intentional and that is not true love. This shows that the love is not love and there is selfishness in the relationship. Such relationships never last for long. Love is something very pure. Its an image of God. When there is love there is God. When there is a reason there is selfishness and hence there is devil. So the reason for you love for her should be love.

i always tell my girl how much i love her an i miss her when she's gone and the reason for loving her is that she makes me fell like a better me

A reason for loving someone? I can tell you many reasons for loving a girl/boy. First of all when you love someone he is everything for you and you always try to keep it next to you. Second of all, the person you love gives you powers to move on in difficult situations and it gives you ambitions to move forward and to give all the best that you can. When you love somebody, it makes you happy, you have a reason to wake up in the morning, a reason to live...

I always tell my girl that my love to her is unexplainable. It is right? If you get to define your love to her, then sometimes it's not sincere anymore and she will do those things you admire about her and she will abuse those things to keep you droooling over her, haha. Well, sometimes love is simply sweet when it is simple.

I think that we have reasons why we love our partner but love overpowers it that we can't say them. we end up saying i don't know why or i just really love you. what we think more is the love than the reasons for loving a person.

Well, being a girl, I know what she's expecting to hear. Tell her your reason first then add "but I love your smile" or "I love how you always worry about if I'm home already or not" or something like that. Your girlfriend is fishing for compliments. She wants to see if you notice the small things that she does for you. Just tell her all the things that make you appreciate her and she'll be okay. Just think about this simple rule: most girls love to have romance in their relationship. All girls want that "kilig" so you better give it at least once a month or suffer a terrible, unexplainable mood swing :D

I guess there must be a reason why you love someone.You just cannot say I LOVE YOU without any feeling towards the person you say that word.We girls also ask that,like me I often ask my special someone sometimes like.." why you love this much?" he will answer me also.It's not that we are thinking that the guy doesn't love us,but sometimes it is needed to check whether the relationship is still at it's best. When there is something wrong in a relationship I tell you if you will be ask those questions I know you cannot answer it directly.So in loving someone there must always be a reason why.

I think you're right on. However many women like romance. See if you can come up with some poem or some flowery language.

Next time try: Because I could not live without you. That normally works. For myself, I agree with you. Loving someone is because I want to be with him most of the time, and I miss him all over again even after seeing him 10 minutes ago. If asked why, maybe I would say, that's how I feel, I just could not describe it.

I have to say I agree with your girlfriend: Women want to hear a REASON that you love us, and sometimes vice versa. It can be anything, your smile, your laugh, or in my case, my boyfriend always tells me that he loves me so much mostly because I " get" him, a guys way of saying he feels understood =)

I don´t think there could be a better explanation to this. As I think love is something you should play with, as it can be tough as a rock and smooth as a butterfly. But you´re right, we do just love each other for who we are. M.S.A

You're so sweet and I love it. How I wish all the guys are like that. You're right but I think your girlfriend just want you to appreciate something about her.

aww thats so sweety^^ all guys should think like you^^ you are right i think we love someone bcs we feel that person is sweet to us sure but dont know sometimes the person change and we still care like happened to me. i liked a guy really and today i saw him and wanted talk with him but didnt but hurt me much :( so im proud that still exists guys like you out there^^ and your gf should be proud of you also^^ what im sure she is^^

I think telling her you just love her may not good enough to make her happy about your love for her,i think you better tell her that hoe special she is.