I am happy, I am content

Philippines
July 5, 2010 8:28pm CST
I've had a very bad summer because of two people who decided to ruin my life and my dreams. They even tried to ruin my self esteem by telling everyone who would listen to them that I have lost my mind and that I am an evil person. But as the days pass and I am able to regain and rebuild my self esteem, I feel content and happy with what I see and what I have achieved. I am able to get a job, a full time job even though these two people scorned that I could not because I was mentally unstable. The job pays good and it was not the job I was expecting that I would be offered. I was content to get an entry level job given that I have been out of the workforce for more than a year. That's why I had to cry yesterday as I was going home because they told me that it was not an entry level position, but for IT support. I am also proud for someone here because I am able to prove that she is not what those people always said she was. They always put her down, telling her that she was stupid. I never believed it, and now I can see that she has a lot of potential and I will help her in my small ways. I am happy and I am content with my life. Because I have done nothing wrong and the blessings keep coming my way.
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4 responses
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
Hello anne, Who is it this time? friends? ex? gf of the ex? who is it? Thank God you were able to move on with your life. that's one thing i really hate, is that being bad mouth by people that you think are good to or nice to you but there approach to you was just tip of the ice berg. i don't know what made them say that in the first place, but you know people, anything to prevent them from being talked about is when they would prefer to talked about other people.
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
The people who said that I was losing my mind was my ex and his gf. But I am able to prove that I am not. Thank you for your response.
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
you're sx is a jerk and blinded that he allow himself to be a fling to this women. am sure he will learned his lesson the HARD way once he gets dumped by his gf who will eventually choose her husband in the end.he wants to play with fire he will surely die when the fire it is burnt out.
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
sorry for the typo, i mean ex.
@abj163 (1037)
• India
6 Jul 10
you know one thing ....same thing happened with me before 1 and half year...it happened in last years july.....one boy was trying to ruin my life he was trying to break my friendship with a pretty girl...he was abusing me everywhere....he was jealous on me.....he was trying to make unstable by mind.....i kept quiet untill a limit.....then i warned him not to do all those this things he just ignored me and told me that he will continue and told me to do what i can.....i can't beat him because he has more height and muscles than me......then i hired one person who was a bad boy in local area...that bad boy was having height of 6.2 and very muscular ...that bad boy just beat him there in front of all boys and girls......not he can't even make an eye contact with me because he has got the lesson for his mistakes....every collegemate told me that i did the correct thing because he was abusing everyone like he is the king....i dont know i did correct or not....but due to that step i am happy ....and i am still happy....
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
You're lucky you were to solve that problem. i don't know why such people had to exist, but probably for us to be brave. in the first place he was at fault and you didn't deserve that because you were trying to have a good life, then insecured people have messed up with you.
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
Thank you for your comment .
@AmbiePam (93944)
• United States
8 Jul 10
That is wonderful. It is good to not let anyone run yourself down, and to overcome the negativity around you.
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
Thank you for your response!
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@muskyo (8)
6 Jul 10
Hi there, I'm going through something similar and wish you the best of luck. If you're surrounded by people like that it really won't take long before you start believing it. :/ Sending love
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
Thank you for the response and love.