Great influence

I do think that the older sibling has a lot more responsibility. The younger one certainly does look to the older and the older can be either a good influence or a bad one. Sounds like you have done wonderful for your sister and you are very close.

I am not much experienced as i was the youngest in the family and a spoilt brat. But i do understand that taking care of your siblings is a matter of responsibility. My brother and sister took alot of care of me. I was guided in the right way by them.

I am a big sister myself. I have two younger brothers. I took care of them when they were still babies and seeing them grow makes me so emotional at times. Ive been with them through thick and thin. I was like a second mum to them. I love my brothers too much that sometimes I worry what would happen if they experience things that would hurt them a lot. I am too much at times. I try my best to set a good example to them while they're growing up. Now that they're teenagers and experiencing a lot these days. I decided to move out and live independently so that they wouldnt rely on me that much too and would also learn things by themselves. I want them to learn to be more responsible as I learned it when I was so much younger. Being the big sister is tough at times, too much expectation and a lot of responsibilities but it could also be FUN. When you see your family happy and contented of whatever you can give.