I can't!

You know what, you should not feel that way, always looks on the positive side, when there is something not good always look for the good side of it. Given that you are over weight, if you talk to him and see his reactions to you, you will find if he is worthy enough of your attention,,,Go girl! God bless. God gave us trials not to be insecure but to overcome, and everything that God gave to us is for our benefits and for us to be molded to be a better one so don't be shy anymore. Aja!

you shouldn't feel insecure about your weight. if you really like this guy, then go for it. if his the type of guy who would dismiss you because of your weight, then he's not worth it. i hope you overcome your insecurities. :)

Hi dsrp, I can understand your pain. But you should understand physic is not everything. Not all man hates the gal physic. You have to gain more confidence and throw away the thoughts of your appearance, which is not reliable in ages. So when you love true, be a good friend to him and show your love in actions and good conduct, he will understand you for sure! Cheers!!

You should not let your weight get in the way of having a conversation with someone, and to be honest if he was any sort of bloke he would not care if you were over weight. People should not judge or be judged on things like this, it is the person inside the body that counts.

i suggest that you dont care about your weight. If you are intereste to him,you can say hello to him. Then you can make friends,and keep in touch via internet and so on. According to your sentence,you often do some exercise at gym. You will be good figure.

Why not? Being overweight does not mean that he doesn't like big girls. I know of a few guys who are fit and well-built but prefer chubby girls over sexy ones. A bit of advice though, don't just go and start the conversation with him. Just wait for an opportunity to do so, like if you happen to go outside of the gym while he's standing there. Make a comment like "The weather seems to be better than yesterday." :-)

Love looks for inner beauty not for any external looks. If your love is true, express it.

ohh dont say that :( is ok if you are not thin. so many girls are not thin and have bfs that are handsome and thin and they dont care for it. many guys just care for feelings^^ dont say things that way. if you like him show him how wonderful and good you are^^ doesnt matter about being a bit fat^^ im a bit fat too and is no prob about that^^ if you like a guy go for it^^ is not any shame to like him also if he said something about your weight is bcs he is stupid. just tell him how you feel and you will see he might go out with you or even if doesnt love you he can be your friend. but for sure he would never feel ashamed of you. dont say that ok?^^

Just be youself and tell him how you feel. Be not bothered by the looks you have but on your attitude and charm. I do believe there are still people who love other of who they are and not what they are. So Chill out! ^^