Now I feel single life is better

Marriage is a sentence...a Life sentence. But then again, there are also benefits of being so - admit it. Those matters you mentioned are I guess a part of that institution, a consequence that people who are in such situation has to accept - genuine acceptance is needed. Because if that negative feeling will continue, eventually, it will be ruined. So when times like this comes - you may divert your attention to looking at the brighter side and appreciate the Love that is still burning between you and your wife. Besides it was your choice right? Or somebody forced you? Peace and Love. Happy Mylotting!

hi bhanusb, maybe you can talk to your wife and ask her to give you more freedom. she sounds like a really dominating person. if not, maybe you can find freedom in small ways, like going out with your friends, developing a hobby, or reading a book. it sounds like you are stuck in this marriage so its best that you find freedom in small ways so that it does not drive you crazy for many years on end.

You can think this in a positive manner,if you wouldnt had any wife and children,would you have been happy ever.......

Cool down and never give up hope there is always light found at the end, take her out for an outing, spend lot time talk without arguing explain and express your self to her, same thing she will also explain her difficulties to you. At some point of discussion will realise her mistake for whatever she is upset. Accept and share her feelings whatever, make her happy patch up, she will change. OR inform your parents and their parents and ask them to advice her to set her right.

I feel that way too, i am better off now that im single, i feel i have the freedom to do anything id like to do an dmuch that i vaue myself more, cause the time that i was in a relationhsip i feel im not happy at all, i was going crazy thinking whats he doing or who he was texting, i get tired chasing him and spying his facebook account but now i am totally releived, my attitude was like that because he really a womanizer maybe i was protecting my teritory so to speak, but now i realzed that i dont need to do that at all, i deserve someone better and i want to reserve myself to someone better.

maybe you should have a deep talk with your wife.if you both all hide pains in the bottom of heart,one day,the anger and pains will break out and ruin your relationship and that time no effort can help.so just tell each other what you really think about.don't come to the day everything is too bad.

Hi bhanu, I finally managed to write a reply. My comp would just hang with this site only. I just hope this reply goes through. I missed you all. Well as regards your being single, life is a give and take. Yes, you may not do the things your wife does not like, but is it not so with her too ? Life has to go on with understanding on both sides, then alone can life be smooth. Had you not married, you would probably eating from hotels, not having a loving family and a companion for your old age, someone who is there with you for better or worse. I am sure there are many things you must have forbid her to do too, for w hich she has taken it philosophically. Do the same, be happy in her happiness and life will be smooth sailing. Good luck pal.

Hubby and I have been married very long and we learned early to give each other space. He has his special times and friends and I have mine. This make for a much better marriage. Have this discussion with your wife and see what you can do.

I am a married woman and I like to think that my husband does not feel as though he is living in a jail! I don’t constantly tell him what he should do and he treats me the same. Our marriage is a partnership and we come together but allow each other the freedom we need as well. I have my friends that I socialise with and he has his and of course we also socialise with friends as a couple. A relationship is supposed to be an enhancement to life, not a burden. It is commonly said that communication is the key; you have to express to your wife that you are unhappy and why and decide if you can work together to make it work or if you should indeed live a singe life. She may feel just as unhappy as you and may even welcome some changes, you’ll never know until you talk...

Hi bhanu, I feel sorry for you...It is not fair for anyone to be dominated by another person.This can happen to anyone , either a husband or wife or in other relationships too...I feel that you should have a talk with your wife and tell her about your feelings.Marriage should not make anyone feel so dejected and unhappy - take care and all the best bhanu

Welcome to the club. :)

For me yes because it is the way you must subject to each other if not then it can cause you of depression.