freind no lover

July 7, 2010 6:14pm CST
some people say that it is bad to love a friend of mine why is that???????? I fell for her and i can't tell her what i really feel cause I am a fraid from my other friends who say that this is a bad thing especially when they say we are brothers and sister not lovers in a mad way? can't tell her and loose my freinds where there is a possipility that she won't accept that I love her in that case i loose her and my freinds. what shall i do???? "excuse my language i not english"
3 responses
@Anlufet (27)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
If you lose your friends because of this small issue then they were never your friends in the first place. People come and go in our lives, don't be afraid to let some people go. Stop being afraid and do it. If you don't do anything about it nothing will happen. And, you do not want to spend some sleepless nights thinking what would have happened if you made your move.
• Ethiopia
8 Jul 10
It is common that best friends become lovers.and it is okay if one found the other very nice.
@rosepedal64 (4188)
• United States
8 Jul 10
Do you think that there is possibility that she could feel the same way about you? Also are you sure that is the kind of love that would end up in a marriage or just a love that you care deeply for. I know that it is hard to decide between the two but you need to do soul searching first before you let her know. Once you know for sure what kind of love you have then tell her and make sure that she knows that you will always be there for her if the feelings ain't the same.