Do you have good number of real friends with you?
By alienstar
@alienstar (5142)
India
July 8, 2010 6:43am CST
Everybody has large number of friends isn't it? even i have a large group of so called friends? but are everybody true to you? are they worth to be called friends? true friends will always be there with you in every mode of your life and their presence is more felt in times of trouble as other so called friends will fade away during this hardship of life.Do you have true friends in your list of friends who can be depended on? i always believe if anyone has one true friend in his life, it is more than enough.So, how many true friends do you have?
9 responses
@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 10
I only have several true friends, you can count it with both hands. We rarely talk, we rarely see each other, but we all know that each of us can be counted in any troubles or hard times. Just last night, a friend from a two hours drive place knocked at my door at 10pm and just said: today is my birthday. So I hugged her and let her in, lent her a night dress, a towel and gave her a new toothbrush then sent her to wash. When she was freshen, she blabbed about how miserable her life is, on and on till early in the morning. So, my friends know exactly that they can lean on me.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Jul 10
Oh..this is great ! coming home at that time is really unimaginable and only close friends can take liberty.Bu still, without testing them in times of your trouble you cannot really say whether you have a real true friend or not for sure.There are friends of these types whom we preserve and also feel great when they are near to us soemtimes, but also cannot trusted completely without knowing them in darker times of your life
@Albert1989 (372)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 10
Although having a large group of friends, but it doesn't mean they're all true friends^^
Those who usually i meet , only come to me when they need me; but when i need them, no one will be there for me.
Luckily, i still got some real friends that really helps me a lot in my life.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Jul 10
Yes, everybody has friends in more number but all of them are not at all true as you can most of them changing color along with time for sure.People are fake and show their presence only when everything is going fine and when there is storm in your life, they won't even take the trouble of meting you and inviting trouble for themselves for sure
@llbo1981 (1237)
• China
8 Jul 10
Honestly speaking,i have few number of real friends in my daily life.Real friends are so hard to find.At shool,the friends are real friends,but when they leave school,they become strangers to me.In office when working,the friends are based on money.It is not the real friend.So once you have real friend,you should treasure the real friend.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Jul 10
In school your maturity level won't be that high as today, so you cannot say whether they were real friends or just friends.But when you grow up, you think a lot and then you would be able to judge whether somebody whom you consider is your close friend or not.For me having one real true friend is like finding a big pressure in my life as it is really difficult to find areal good friend in this fake list of so called friends
@jkar1234 (147)
• India
8 Jul 10
I have got some good friends but if i think about real friends then only two or three names come into my mind.
I am happy with my true friends but i want to behave nicely with everybody. Somewhere i read this very interesting line" friends come and go in our lifes but enemies accumulate".
Luckily i have some friends to fall back on in difficult phases of life.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
8 Jul 10
Even if yous ay two great true friends in your list i should say that you are lucky as finding a real true friend is very very difficult in this fake world now as everything is started look artificial and even the people living now in this world are very selfish in nature and cannot be trusted and look very very artificial and in tis case even if you e one good true friend, you are lucky !
@ittsbrianna (9)
• United States
8 Jul 10
i have 5 true friends that i can count on no matter what!some people mmay only have 1 true friend but either way you know you have someone to lean back on. i have tons and tons of friends who arent true friends
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Jul 10
Are you sure you have 5 real true friends whom you can depend on in every mode of your life and in whatever situation you are in? are you also a real true friend for those 5 of them? i bet you have not judged them properly or you have not understood the real meaning of friends as finding a friend who is true to you itself is difficult and here you are saying that you have 5 real friends..!!
@ynowiziki (79)
• China
9 Jul 10
well,when I see you topic,just two or three true friend came in my mind.In my opinion,a real friend is a one who support you in thin and thick,no matter what happens...They can support you when you emotional down,finacial broker or even healthy problem.It is not neccessary to comunacate with them all the time but just remember each other in deep mood.
@alienstar (5142)
• India
9 Jul 10
You mean you have 3 real friends ! if you really have this number of true friends you are lucky for sure as to be honest i don't have any real friend in my life as there are quite a few close friends who are really close to me, but i haven't tested them in times of trouble and so not able to judge them whether they are real or fake friends in my life
@jpso138 (7851)
• Philippines
9 Jul 10
I have friends but I never thought that among the many there were really just a few whom I could call true friends. There was a moment in my life when those that I consider friends walk out on me. Yes, it was during those rough times. The thing is, some of them even hit me in the back just to put themselves in better position at work. But, I'm glad it did happen. It was also then that I was able to find out who among the many are the ones worthy of being called "friends"...
