Is it fault of being myself?
By rutch204
@rutch204 (26)
Philippines
July 8, 2010 8:55am CST
People despise you of being show your true identity. I mean being myself is hard to please everybody. Comments are starting to fall in the lists. I'm not doing these only myself but also to others who wants to know me more and my likes.... Guys, I would like to hear your comments and share with me your opinions.
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6 responses
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
8 Jul 10
Hi rutch!
If I've really understood your words here, then I've met someone like you whose words are just plain facts, sincere, honest. And that pisses everyone around because the truth is hard to bear.
Otherwise I've met someone who is more of an egoist who seems to brag around. And no one wants to be around with either.
It is no fault of yours being yourself as it is no fault of them being themselves. We just have to manage ourselves better and adapt best to circumstances and the environment around.
@mutahharbashir (232)
• Pakistan
8 Jul 10
yess its a big fault,
in the world everything is made for other
water never drinks itself,
fire never burns itself,
money have 0 value until you can't buy something
so live for others , so others may live for you
@choconut (297)
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
Just be yourself. You aren't made to please everybody, you're unique so be unique. If people can't accept you as who you are then let it be, they're not the judge of you anyways. You can't let other people dictate to you on how you should live your life, or how you should act, etc. Because that's who you are, and whatever people do they can't change the fact that, that's you. Another thing, as long as you know yourself it's okay. You can go by without everyone being pleased with you. Find your inner circle, example your family, only what they say will be important to you.
Case: if an acquaintance told you that your fashion is senseless. Let it pass by his/her opinion is not important.
If your mom tells you that your fashion is senseless. Listen to her and let her help you change it, because her opinion is important, because she's in your inner circle.
I hope you get what I'm saying. God bless (",)
@bumami (15)
• Czech Republic
11 Aug 10
Yes it is hard to please everybody,but the people who despised you are the kind of people who are not good to be with, because instead of despising you why don't correct if you were wrong and accept you for who you are. there are thousands of different colors, some are looks the same but still it's different...like people we all look humans but we all have different personalities..
@marga1433 (90)
• Philippines
3 Dec 10
I guess no... it is definitely not you r fault i f people don't like the way you show yourself... at least you are being yourself