What or Who you blame for all bad things in your life?

I used to blame my bus when I was late to school, blame the traffic. When I got bad marks at school, I blamed the teachers. When I can't have what I want, I blame someone surround me. Even, when it came to the relationship, I blamed myself when he said he wanted us to be JUST friend. I blamed myself for not being beautiful, blamed myself for being not quite romantic to him. Till I grown up, I realize that actually nothing to blame. No one to blame for all the bad things that happened. Getting late to school or to work, it's none mistakes. It just you wake up late. Getting bad marks at your lessons, don't blame your teachers. You are the one who didn't prepare yourself well. Being dumped by your lover? Pity them. Don't blame yourself, don't blame your parents, moreover blame GOD. People tend to blame God for all the bad things that happened. There's none to blame. "Blaming others is like scratching your hand while your head which is itchy" -- Ajahn Chah. I like that statement. And it is totally true. It won't solve problems.

do you believe in Karma,If yes then you must also believe that all the bad things that have happened to you throughout your life have been, in some way, your fault.Its a one kind of life cycles that everyone experiences.As our karma performed, accordingly we suffer or experience happiness in our life,So I personally believe that whatever happen in your life, whether it is Good or Bad, your KARMA is responsible for that.

Faulty logic, old traditions, happenstance, fate, chance, just dumb luck, taboos, and mental lapses all of these plays in what happens in our everyday lives. Most of what happens is the person's responsiblity of how they except the situation(s) that occurs in one's life.

Well,bad or good things that happen in us always had a reason. If we fail from any examination,it maybe becoz we did not study that hard. We fail from business ,maybe we are lacking of good handling. There is always a reason behind every failures. We should not blame it to anyone,or with the nature,fate or destiny. If fate has anything with it,maybe there is a good reason behind. Let's just try again and do our best,instead of blaming. It should be considered as lesson to remember not to do the same mistake again.

I blamed no one, not even myself. If I made a mistake that cause a bad problem, I would say to myself: Well, I am just human. Then I will try to fix it. If others caused the troubles I would rant to myself and then I would say: Well, they are just human. So they made mistakes, too.

it depends on the situation i guess most of the time i blame the government lol im also a big fan of blaming my parents i just think today that the parents dont get enough of the blame they expect everyone else to be parents for them! oh my god my kid isnt home it 9 pm well i guess the cops will give him a curfew ticket lol you deserve the ticket keep your kid in the house ! oh my god my child is mean because of this violent video game (this is my favorite) lets blame the company who made it lol or sense you have to be 18 to buy them maybe as a parent you should take more of a interest in what you are buying for your own children lol so i say blame the parents for everything lol

In reality, we bring most of the bad things in our lives on ourselves in one way or another, either by making bad decisions, or by choosing to hang around the wrong people...

hi bubulizz, do not blame any body for your bad things,but still we will blame others for bad which happen to us,everything god and bad will be happen accordingly,but through some one it will happen,good and bad are not in our hands,we will do good and bad every day,but we does not find that we have good and bad things,so do not worry and blame any body,that is our luck and fate,have a nice day

i believe that everything happens for a reason, it teaches us lessons either by hard or easy way. it only depends on us on how we react to different situtations and make something good out of it.

actually,i often meet some bad things in my work,if they are happened,i will look for the reason at the first and try to make a communication whith that guy who made some mistakes instead of blame,because it will help people to take a knowledge from this terribly experience

Well i blame luck and then later i blame myself. Sometimes i also curse God especially when i get low marks. I do that everytime because i know that i have done well but still i get low marks. My mom knows that too but she also can't explain that. I mostly blame myself for doing that. I can't blame it on any one else because the one who is responsible for the mistakes he/she made is/himself/herself.

I always remember one thing...."dont make others responsible for the hell you create." There was a time when i used to blame others for something that went wrong in my life, but not anymore. Before i blame anyome i just think if i had done the right thing that i am blaming others. So i have stopped blaming and started looking for solutions rather.

I don't blame anybody in the course of my life because I always think that even if I blame others for whatever happens it's not going to change anything for the good. On the other hand, doing the reverse of what I said would only bring bad things to both me and the ones I blame in the long run.

it depends what hapend if i fall from a bike im the one who to blame

I will completely blame on myself. No one can change someone, its only we itself who are responsible for all sort of changes in our life. So if anything bad happens to me, its only me who took wrong decision which resulted in a bad thing.