Tears won't Stop Falling and I'm Missing Her...

Hi eurekafemme, I am not a mother so I cant view it from your perspective. But I could give you a child's perspective. I was in boarding schools, and hostels for the better part of my life. So everytime I was leaving for hostel my heart would be heavy. I wouldnt be crying on the road of course, I would wish somehow some miracle would happen to let me be back at home, even though my father was too strict and I took a lot of beating from him. But somehow, it never happened. :) So I can just tell you that your child misses you as much as you do. And though she would be ok without you, I mean she doesnt need you to change her diapers, and bathe her I presume, she would be able to eat some, drink some, make some small talk, all the while wondering when it would be July 14. :) She is more uncomfortable than you are because she has to act love and affections non-stop! That is what we call being social. :) Feel comforted that she is thinking as much of you, if not more. July 14 is not very far now, is it? :) Comparing to six months semesters that I tolerated? :)

I'm so sorry that you are in such pain. To get through the next 5 days you need to keep busy. Do things that make you happy and play music that is upbeat. Try and accomplish a project that you have been putting off and or can't get done because you are taking care of your daughter. The time will fly by and before you know it your husband and daughter will be back. Good luck and God Bless!

yeah it is so difficult to get through especially when you are deeply attached to her..but, I do hope these 2 days pass fast to get her back again into ur arms

I know that it is difficult to be away from your children. I remember the first time that I was away from my daughter for more than a few hours and it was really tough on me at first, though in the end I did enjoy the time away from her. Now, with my son it has been a very different experience because he is almost four years old and he has only been away from me twice overnight and never for more than one night at a time. I couldn't imagine him to be gone for a period of time because I am so attached to him.

I do not have any idea as how would it be to be away from your child---hope she comes back soon and you enjoy your every second being with her .it would be like hell to miss someone you love the most though.I'm sure there are some mylotters who can console you and make you feel better.great day.

That's not too bad. At least your baby is with her father. And she'll be back. Just look at her pictures if you feel lonely. That's what I do. I was there when my wife gave birth to our 3rd child in the province. I was not there with our first 2 kids because I was still studying. I heard the baby's cry. It's amazing. Because it's the first time I felt like a father! But then I have to get back to work after my leave of seven days. But in those 7 days I held her every chance I get. I prepared her milk. I helped my wife bathe her. I changed her diapers. I wake up when she cries. It's hard to part with her. My wife or I call each other once in awhile and hearing our baby's voice makes me happy again. It's like I never left.

Hi! Eureka! I can understand your plight, plight of being a mother of a baby. Parting with one's child is difficult to bear. Hopefully, your baby would have gone with her father for meeting someone/to attend a ceremony. Be brave and patient, the time will pass very quickly and you will never come to know about it, 14th July, 2010 will come in a jiffy. Hopefully, you can get in touch with your hubby through mobile and ask about well being of the baby.

I can understand your feelings coz I'm a mother of a 4-year old and I can't be without seeing her. I know how much I miss her when she goes out with my relatives. She would say as a small girl, ma, tata, bye bye...but after sometime, she'll call me up and ask how am I.

it's the bond between mother and a child...the connection of life -the connection of heart...one thing i can say -hush... you have to be fine for your child...

You should be strong and try to manage the emotions or feelings inside. Do not give your time of always thinking about your baby, find ways to keep yourself busy in different things to avoid missing your baby to much. Set always in your mind that sometimes we're just only a borrower of things here in this world. Anything can happen or we might lost it for one just blink of an eye. cheers!

She'll be back soon! Can you feel how fast days goes by? In a heart beat she'll be with you again =)

I feel your pain. I'm also a mother and I know what it feels when you are separated with your child especially when we're not used to leave them. Have faith, I know your daughter will be ok. If you really want to see her, why not use the internet or any gadget to communicate with her. I hope you'll feel better with it.

you will be alright soon,then you can go to see your baby. now what you should do is to enrich your life. you are now in hospital, right? then you can still surf on-line. you can look for your interests on the internet. Don't let your baby hold your whole heart. wishes for you!

is only for a couple of days hold on trust me i know how it feels having someone you love far away

i am so sorry to hear that...i know ot will be ok. i have not gone through this situation, so i really dont know how it feels. But i definately know that its a pain that you are going through...all i can do is only pray for you.