Lazy and unorganized people

I truly understand where you are coming from because I have OCD when it comes to things being cleaned and in order in my house. My daughter and her family live with me and my daughter is the complete oppostite of me when it comes to cleaning. However, to use the word "hate" is really a bit much especially in reference to your own cousin. When she said she didn't know how to do chores then I would have said "come on I will show you how its done." Then she would have no excuses.

If it has happened to me with my sisters, and when I have lived with friends, when I shared a house with my cousin, they are lazy, lazy, dirty, and it is not important for them to live like that, they are hoping that one does the things, the food, the cleanliness, the purchases, it is difficult to bear this situation without having you fight.

Welcome to the world of certified slobs! I have lived with that person for almost six years now. I kept on telling him that if he is too lazy to clean up all the mess at least he must try to clean up HIS OWN mess. It is very irritating and it makes me feel like I am suffocated.Saying you don't know how to do it is just a very lame alibi. You don't know how to do it because you simply don't want to learn how to do it.

When someone hears the word laziness, surely that person would feel lazy by the time he hears that word. As there is tremendous development in our technology,science,commerce and increase in incoming of money it causes human to act lazy because by money we convert our handwork's into laziness. So being lazy is a act of bad attitude and laziness causes many internal and external diseases.

There were many people already who lived with us before. We didn't have problems with them because they are not lazy. It's just my sister, even until now she still leaves the laundry to my mother though she already has a kid.

I'm half lazy, I do the chores but I slack off. Maybe you can try to ask your cousin to do the chores quickly, and explain to him, it only takes few minutes.

wow this sounds like the guy who lives with us right now (temporarily) he is very lazy and doesnt want to help around the house (he has no money to pay us, so at least he could help), but he will be out soon though!

I hate lazy and unorganized people too. I am not lazy, but I am kind of unorganized. I do things at the last moment, but at the end I will do things perfectly and the result will be good. I used to have a roommate who was always lazy. We used to get from a nearby mess and she was always lazy and pretneded as if she was when it was her turn to get food for all of us. I just moved to a different country with my husband. I am in the process of finding a job. I just reached here two weeks ago and waiting for my social security number to start a job. I work as an instructional designer. This is the first time after 5 years of my work I am taking a break in my career. I am very careful trying to occupy myself as I can so that I won't be lazy when I start with work. I am also taking a little effort that my husband won't find me lazy. I feel sleepy during the day because I don't have anything else to do other than watching TV. I am forcing myself not to sleep during the day and not to make it a habit. I am also helping my husband with house hold taks such as cooking and cleaning. I need to keep myself occupied and encourage myself to find a job.

When i was young and lived with my grandparents,i had this cousin of mine who's very lazy. She sleeps whole day and woke up when meal is ready. The worst thing is,she can't even wash her personal undies that,sometimes i ended up throwing it to the trash bin. It's really a headache living someone like that. I am glad she changed a bit when she started dating with a guy.

i grew up used to doing all the household chores so I exactly know how you feel. but during college, my mom decided to hire a helper so a lot of the chores I used to do, i dont need to do anymore. now i sometimes feel weak and even useless because i couldt do things anymore. though most of the time it makes me happy since i dont have to do any chores anymore and just concentrate on the stuff i need to tend to. i guess the thing is just to learn to have respect and initiative. if you feel like you can be of any help, then help. if there is something you dont know how to perform, there's always a way to learn it. i think it's okay to be living the way I do as long as i dont make anyone angry of my not doing any chores. lol. i am really glad that someone doest it for me now. it was really torture for me when i was growing up when I had to finish piles of homeworks and do tons of household chores at the same time. it made life a lot harder for me.

I hate it too. especially if you are the only one doing all the house chores and you look at them doing nothing is frustrating. I hate coming home from work and see that house messy and unorganized. I hate looking at the floor and its not swept. I hate the idea that I have to do it all even if I am already very tired from work.

My siblings and I usually push the responsibility of doing chores to each other. I can't deny the fact that I'm lazy and reluctant to do chores. But alas, chores have to be done, so I have to do it in the end.

Ouch! This hit me big time! You kind of described me in a way that I do stare at my computer all day and I just go out to eat. Now, I know how my mom felt when I was still sharing a room with them (Asian families tend to do this). (TT_TT). However, your cousin is different from me, though. I do know how to do my chores. I am lazy, I know that but when the room really needs to be cleaned, I'd spend all day doing so. I don't make excuses that I don't know how coz like what you said, it's as simple as ABC. Sometimes, I get too lazy, I'd postpone it but then the dust builds up and since I'm asthmatic, I'd still be suffering from it. It's really Karma. Nowadays, my mom doesn't mind anything that happens in my own room. I'm still lazy and might be a bit organized but I really think your cousin is too much! Please tell her that she's no princess! And, if the chore benefits her and her alone, don't do the chore for her. She needs to learn how to live in a house!

it must be sop annoying living with a cousin like that, and she is not in living in her own family but dont want to contribute to clean the house or something like that. I am understand why are you so hated, I am agree with you. Why don't she try to learn how to do the simple things not necessary some thing big, just like simply dusting and sweeping the surroundings.

I am lucky to not have experienced living with this kind of person. That really is annoying. I hope one day your cousin will learn her lesson and eventually oblige herself to do household chores. I hope she finds a man who is very OC when it comes to maintaining their home tidy and clean.

i think u are not alone. i also have that kind of cousin and she's just giving me headache and mess most of the time.

whoa! that's a real lazy head.. medically that's dysfunctional and addiction.