long distance relation

it doesnt really works well because you are not sure if one of you is telling the truth or not..or just playing with your heart

Good day to you Kazegatana, Truly indeed it is very hard to maintain a long distance relationship. You must be strong and determined to keep it. However, if you are used to the set-up of a long distance relationship, you cannot disclose that your relationship will still be the same if you are together. There are times, relationship is much sweeter if you are far to each other. Since you recognize the importance of each other. But, if you are together, for sure, you will somehow feel that he or she is always on your side. And you will not somehow realize importance of his or her presence. And thru that, the feeling of boredome will somehow arise. This feeling can be avoided if you try to maintain the level of privacy. Wherein, you will arranged a schedule as to when you will see each other and as to when you will not. Thru this, you will somehow realized that you miss him or her.

It's good that you have such a long relationship because such kind of relationships mostly never workout. Sooner or later one of them finds that the girl is cheating the boy or the boy is cheating the girl when someone comes and tells them. Then in the blink of an eye the love is ruined. I hope it's not so in your case. It's good that you love her so much. It will work trust me.

I know how it feels to have a long distance relation. I had this before marriage and now after marriage. Before marrige things were fine, but now after marriage things have changed we hardly talk, when i call her she says she does not have anything to tak...i feel so bad. She says she has forgotten my face and sometimes she also says she does not want to live with me...this is a bad feeling...I would advise anyone not to have a long distance relation.

Hello, I sort of know how you feel as my boyfriend from university and I have both gone home for summer break so we're going to be thousands of miles apart for 3 months. We talk everyday but I miss him like crazy. Absence definitely does make the heart grow fonder. However, if we were away from each other for too long we would probably drift apart, so seeing each other face to face is very important. I don't think it will get boring or that there will be no passion. My boyfriend and I see each other everyday during term time and we are still as passionate as ever. Actually holding your girlfriend and being with her will definitely be better than just talking about it!

I used to have an office mate who had a long distance love affair and she talked to her boyfriend via overseas almost everyday and they even chat online for hours during weekends. Ironically, she still entertained other suitors and on several occasions she even accepted date invitations from these other guys. She admitted loving her boyfriend very much and indeed she was always sweet to him every time they talked on the phone. Clearly, the boyfriend seriously loved her too or he wouldn't be calling her everyday. One day, some of our nosy male office mates who learned that she has been dating new guys despite the fact that she already has a fiance- asked her jokingly if she was already having a change of heart- but she casually replied that she just wanted to enjoy herself as she was lonely that's why.... When my tour of duty was over, I went back to my country ahead of her and I never heard any more news about the said love affair after that. Later, the person who took my former post told me that 3 mos. after I went back to my country, the girl resigned from her job to get married. With whom? Well... that- I do not know.

hi! as for me, I could never live in an LDR (long distance relationship)1 my BF and i have been dating for 3 years and we haven't been apart for so long, the longest one being 4 days when he was out camping. and if ever we would be apart? i dunno.. i don't even want to entertain the thought of not having him around.. i admire you because you are strong to maintain this kind of relationship. just remember to always be faithful.. waiting can be rewarding!! :)

This relationship is much more entertaining.It's like watching a good movie or listening to a favorite music.Daily things look special because of the distance.How to avoid the boredom when you're finally together?Move slow, be less passionate then you are now with these mics and web-cams.Try to endure the pleasure of communicating and don't rush.The truth is that we miss each other less when we are together.Don't eat the fruits of love to often.

Always remember this...ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER...

Well,if you two really love each other,nothing to worry,There is no dream greater than to see the ones you love,there's no room for boredom,The most boring is to just sit down on a table,just typing your message to communicate. Using your webcam to see that person. Everyday routine. Whereas,if you are together there so much things to do, you can interact easily to say what you want to say,you can built your dreams together,you can share your favorite food,cooking and eating together.Exploring places that both of you want to visit,or meet each other relative. Believe me there is no boredom in the company of the one you really love.

just be yourself like in those video calls and phone calls^^ dont be afraid if she likes you like this even will like you more when you are near ^^ but near you can even share more than if you are far^^ go meet her soon if you love her that much and dont be afraid just be sweet to her like you are already. talk with her, go out with her and be happy^^

Long distance relationship can work very well if you keep up the communication on a regular basis. The only main issue that can arise if when you actualy meet and start dating as normal. Of course its nice at first but there will be dissapoinment to some degree and long distance keeps you away from the personal/physical etc.. that can hiner a relationship. But once this hurdle is cleared things should be smooth for a long time since you got through the long distance part.