Mistakes are human aren't they?

i am sorry that you have lost your love but the past can never be rewinded to avoid or come mistakes.......there are a lot of things in everyone's life to cry for...but life is not like that we just have to move on...and time heals every mental injury.....try to regain him...i know its very hard but nothing is impossible......i am not a great human to tell these things to you but i was also depressed then i read a book names MEGALIVING auhor ROBIN SHARMA.....this book overcame my stress depression and problem and now i am happy .....try this book and i am sure you will be all right...... happy mylotting

Maybe he just needes a little time to think it through. I might give it one more shot in a couple of weeks if you feel that strongly but them after that...for me...I would have to move on. If this guy is not the one then he is still out there waiting on you my friend.

The question remains. It is true love??? True love survives all the mistakes. Love unconditionally,correct and learn from mistakes, communicate so there is no doubt how you feel.Love is a funny creature. Sometimes a few bumps in the road makes it stronger. Go see him. Bring a gift. Eat a little humble pie. Communicate unconditional love and kindness. Tell him there is no life without him. Look deep into his eyes with your puppy dog eyes. How could he say no??

They say "you would only realize how great someone is until he is gone". They couldn't have been more right! Yes I agree mistakes are human. But perhaps not many humans realize that they make mistakes. Perhaps not many humans too get up as fast or at least try to after every fall. But you are different. I think you should try to repossess the same love you once had and you shouldn't give up until you are very sure that it should be time to move on.

If you rslly love that person and want him back in your life...i would suggest you use the power of attraction...when we think our mind creates vibration that can make things happen. But you need to believe and have faith in yoursel that it will happen. Even if you think for a second that it will not happen then your restricting belief will win over your faith. Every night or before you sleep. Create an image in mind of being with that person...do it before you sleep...and think of it several times a day. create an image in mind. "If you mind conceives it and your heat believes it...you should know that you will achieve it."

take the logical steps.. 1. first, approach him for a talk. you do it first, since you're the who is at fault here. if he's willing to talk, explain your side or at least say the things that are in your heart. blurt it all out less you might get regrets later on. but if he isn't willing to talk for the time being, don't push. if you insist, he is not game to listen anyway.. if will just go out to the other ear. it might cause another argument between the two of you.. 2. don't let the event ruin your life. try hard and harder still to live your life the way you want it to be..have fun, hang-out with friends and stay beautiful. it is important to look unaffected at least on the outside.. who knows he may fall in love with you again 3. believe in destiny.. if you are meant for each other, then no matter how much hardships you went through,, how great the distance and how long the time you've been apart, it doesn't matter. you will still be together in the end.. just like in the film, the notebook.. so try steps 1 to 2, after all, time heals all wounds and the future brings surprises much more than you can expect : )

I you be soulmates I would try it again to patch up what ever boo boo you did. If that dont work aya have to move on but it will take quite a while to repair the heart!

hi celticeagle I would really g ive it one more try as it sounds like you really care.I almost blew it with my hubby as I wanted to be what i thought he would like more, a blonde and an extrovert. well my clumsy attempts to be just like him were horrible and my bleach job a disaster as he was furious with me and I was in tears but I told him that I had done all this because I wanted to be a better person. Know what he said as he sat me down and talked to me: I loved the shy girl with the pale caramel colored hair, I love you just the way you were, so please please change back be yourself, thats the person I love" So it took some doing to get my hair dyed back to that very pale brown almost blonde that I thought was awful but he loved. And it was really easy to be the me I really was. I know your situation is probably not at all like mine but you said he did care for you so may be he still does underneath it all.why don't you go to him with the words you wrote here , bare your soul and you heart and wait and see, it just might surprise you.Give it one more womanly try and tell him honestly how you feel about him. reading what you wrote might be the way to open his heart to you again.

Always give your best, but if whatever that can be done is done, and yet it cannot be remedy, you'll have no regrets when moving on. Of course we hope for the best and giving our best efforts increase the chance of the best ending being able to happen. And then, we also have to face reality and if after all efforts, our wish doesn't come, we'll have to move on and we know it'll be no regrets then.

hi celtic, When we journey through the nebulous path of life this is most likely that we stumble at one point or the other. 'Too err is human and forgiveness is heaven' - great poet Alexander Pope had said. This implies the universal tendency of making mistake here and there. The situation you are in is best perceived by you and we can just peep into and there is no totality. Since you know that he too is not all relaxed after this twist there is every possibility of you two getting united once again. Had he been totally a gone out case I would have asked to move on for life has a lot stored for you. here the situation is very volatile. Why not once give it a try? I do not think by stooping you would lose all you. can not it be like stoop to conquer? all the best.

Timing! Timing is essential. assess the personality of your man and knwo when to get in. If he's the type that you have to give space first, then don't strike when the iron is hot. Let him cool down, but be sure to make him feel what you feel before he's able to move on with his life. As I've said, your knowledge of your man's personality and the timing is crucial. Don't be too pushy, that might drive him away. Anyway, the time without you might bring good... would make him realize your worth and he should start missing you...that's if, he doesn't despise you that much. Bu at the end, you can't have him back... then maybe, he's not just for you, no matter how perfect the way things used to be. Move on, and accept that life has something better for him and for you. Just make sure that you learned from the past to make all this painful experience more worthwhile.