stoning or flogging or let free-which one is best suited for adultery

@khad2000 (183)
India
July 10, 2010 7:34am CST
This is about the case of an Iranian woman www.hindu.com/2010/07/10/stories/2010071062211700.htm i think ,the worst sin done by human is adultery just think about the wife or husband of the convicted person how they(he/she) will feel when they first witness the unfaithfulness of their dear one their(he/she) dear one is also dear to another person the trauma of the person related to the convicted is unimaginable yet , mostly men , they are readily available for adultery after seeing the adverse effect of this crime , in your opinion ,what should be the punishment stoning to death or flogging in front of public or letting free
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• United States
12 Jul 10
Neither, I didn't know we still lived in the stone age. Of course, I'm from America where we sue the other person and bog down the courts with law suits that could be handled in the church. But who goes to church? There are just a bunch of hypocrites and liars there, well, step outside the church, they are there too. I don't know much about their laws but human decency doesn't seem to be a high priority. Come to America, land of the free, home of the brave.
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• United States
14 Jul 10
That's a hoot: you're debating whether to kill or flog people for adultery and we're living in the stone age. Get real.
@khad2000 (183)
• India
14 Jul 10
i believe all Americans are still living in stone ages but with modern amenities
@khad2000 (183)
• India
17 Jul 10
my point is ,Metallion flogging is the best way to punish adultery it is practical as well as human
@EvanHunter (4026)
• United States
11 Jul 10
Funny that the man involved has never been flogged or received any punishment. She should be let go unless they plan on punishing the man also which they don't.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
11 Jul 10
for both...??? too bad.. this mustn't be encouraged...
@khad2000 (183)
• India
12 Jul 10
which must not be encouraged , sagar adultery or the punishment
@khad2000 (183)
• India
11 Jul 10
evanhunter , punishment is for both it is media which is creating hype with woman in order to pull down the image of islam
@awapak (1275)
• Pakistan
18 Jul 10
STONING IS THE BEST OPTION AS IT IS FROM GOD ALMIGHTY,GIVEN IN ALL HOLY BOOKS.....!!! If you really want to check all evils like adultery,incest,murder,homosexuality etc, you will have to introduce all the divine punishments given in the Holy Books.All married persons going for adultery or incest,must be punished heavily.And if you want that these evils should spread and enter in each home,then you can let these culprits free to do what ever they feel like........
@ladyhope (377)
• Canada
10 Jul 10
Is adultery really the worst sin in your eyes? I think murder is worse, so is kidnapping, violence, stealing...etc. Yes, it is terrible, but stoning and flogging are both inhumane, archaic ways of punishing people, especially for a non-violent crime. Maybe I have different views because I live in Canada, but what someone does with their life is NOT anyone's business except their own and the people involved. Who are you to judge? Maybe she is unfaithful because her husband beats her or is a cruel husband. Why should she be stuck in that situation? We don't know the reasons behind her actions and we have no right to judge. She should definitely be let free because the courts/police/government have no place in people's bedrooms!
@khad2000 (183)
• India
10 Jul 10
hello lady your are correct , laws depends on the society firstly , put yourself in their shoes the problem belongs to the society where love,marriage,family means a lot do you know, in India, neglecting aged parents is punishable up to 3 months jail do you know ,Islam was the first religion on the face of the earth which gave the right to the women to divorce men even in US , this law came only in late 1930s all other religions remained cruel to women and Islam gave lots of rights to women if the husband is cruel, female got the right to divorce him then she can very well marry the person whom she feels secure this cannot be the justification for adultery your last point is very interesting , lady ......courts/police/government have no place in bedrooms , really beautiful there should be four witnesses who have seen this act if witnesses proved wrong , then they get 80 flogs this is Islamic law
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@khad2000 (183)
• India
11 Jul 10
thanks for adding informaion lady Islamically the case seems to be over i think this case don't deserve this media hype in every country , people use to frame false cases on innocent people
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
11 Jul 10
yes..of course adultery is the worst crime...but it don't deserve these type of cruel punishments.. a person he/she commits adultery ..if he/she is not satisfied with the partner.. so we just can't blame the doer only.. so the best choice is a divorce...and its accepted in all communities... I'm not trying to encourage adultery by saying so..ok.. felt really sorry for her... thanks for sharing have a great day/night.....
@Galena (9110)
13 Jul 10
adultery is the worst crime? worse than rape? worse than murder? worse than animal cruelty? worse than child abuse, worse than armed robbery? no one would ever claim that adultery is perfectly fine, but I could come up with a list as long as my arm of crimes worse than adultery. it's a breach of trust between two people, and any deity the Oath was sworn to. the other crimes I mentioned aboce are definitely worse.
@khad2000 (183)
• India
14 Jul 10
galena for all the crimes you have mentions , there is punishment in Islam but there is no concept of jail in Islam jail is used to keep the culprit till the time of persecution
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
11 Jul 10
As a polyamorist, I don't think that adultery is such a bad thing. As long as your partner AGREES
@meirhu (363)
• Israel
14 Jul 10
Khad Do you have the impression that I DON'T value morals, family, and love. The OPPOSITE is true. Only one of MY values is that it is wrong for someone to OWN some one else. Husbandry is taking care of animals.
@khad2000 (183)
• India
14 Jul 10
meir, this case belongs to people who value moral,family and love more than anything just put yourself in their shoes and think whether it is correct or otherwise
@derek_a (10873)
11 Jul 10
Our great religious teachers have taught us the power of forgiveness, and also that it is better not to judge our fellow man. It is not easy to do, I will admit. If your wife/husband has fallen in love with someone else and/or committed adultery, it would hurt, but we all have our karma to pay - we are all our own judges as we become more spiritually aware. Even the ones who stoned the adulterers are one day going to have to face themselves in order to forgive themselves. The situation is very sad, one in which I myself must try not to judge._Derek
@khad2000 (183)
• India
12 Jul 10
in Islam ,to divorce a man , women don't need a reason if she loves some one other than her husband , then she can very well divorce her husband and go with her lover when you have this options , then why did women or man should commit adultery
@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
13 Jul 10
Hi khad, It's clear that it depends on the culture and your measuring stick. Muslims are following Islamic law and other cultures are not going to agree with it. The only way your culture will change will be to get away from using Islamic law. I shudder to think what would be happening in the west if we were following some of the rules in the Bible. I don't believe that a person should be punished for adultery, it is a matter between a husband and wife and should be settled without violence. I'm sure that there are Muslims who would not agree with this punishment. I don't think that the west has a lot to be proud of either, our justice system leaves a lot to be desired. I am opposed to capital punishment, no matter what the crime. Blessings.
@khad2000 (183)
• India
14 Jul 10
pose, your are suggesting to change to some thing ugly ,bad and inhumane when Islam preserves moral , you feel bad don't compare with biblical laws they are not practical as per bible looking at women is adultery where as to be punished under adultery Islamic law requires 4 witnesses further if witness proved wrong they get 80 flogging in public the reason why Islamic law is human and better than present human made laws is there is no jail in Islam for punishment
@bestboy19 (5478)
• United States
13 Jul 10
I think the guilty should be put in the stocks where everybody can see them, with a sign telling all about their misdeeds. Both parties should be there, not just the woman.
@khad2000 (183)
• India
14 Jul 10
you are really a best boy your answer is to the point and knowledgeable
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
I am an angry person and it will make me angrier thinking that there are so many cases like this that are happening anywhere around the world. I would like to stone if I have to, or even pull out every nail of the infidel husband or wife (LOL) but that will not be necessary. God has His own way in punishing them later on. Wives and husband who are loyal should continue to be loyal. There will come a time when they would realize their sins and everything will be too late.
• India
12 Jul 10
any thing is ok ,if applicable equally to men and women ,in islam ,if men are allowed to keep four wife then why wifes are not allowed to keep four, husband,worldwide we are talking of equal right we should give equal right ,islamic rules or any religion books should change with time.people have better mindset.
@khad2000 (183)
• India
13 Jul 10
soon i will start that thread ,akhiles discussion about why women in Islam is not allowed to marry four males is beyond the scope of this thread human is same ,his behavior is same and GOD is same then why should religious books need a change