If there is one thing you would like to teach kids...

@tomitomi (5429)
Singapore
July 10, 2010 9:56am CST
Whether they are your own or otherwise what would that be? I've been asking myself this quite a lot recently. I'm more inclined towards teaching problem-solving skills. I start off with pictures before moving on to scenarios/stories in which they would identify the problem, causes, consequences and eventually finding the appropriate solutions. From identifying a single problem I would love to progress to identifying multiple problems and eventually finding appropriate solutions to them, in future. I would love to hear from you.
12 responses
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
10 Jul 10
Hi tomitomi, Whatsoever it is, teaching kids is a great challenge. It requires extra effort if one is keen on teaching kids some specialized thing. Since kids pick up things more quickly than an adult therefore it must be kept in mind that one is careful about handling the things undertaken. Since I am a teacher of Language in College besides teaching deportment and other approaches I emphasis that kids pick up language skill on the correct mode. English is not my first language and so of my son's. The sounds or say articulations that are in English are not there in his mother tongue. he is 8 years and 4 months now. But he can pronounce all English sounds now which children of his age here are failures. I have put things in such a way as if English and the sounds in this Language are there are not learnt but acquired. And I am happy that my effort has paid back.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
11 Jul 10
Hi That is the point to ponder over. When you grow up into an adult it really becomes difficult to learn language skills. Since Acquisition is involuntary and Learning is voluntary effort, better expose children in different language environment in their early age. Even if it is not his/her mother tongue, he/she would pick up the correct tone and articulation of any language or languages he/she is focused into. I do not say I am an excellent teacher but I have succeeded in most of my experiment so far language is concerned. thanks you tomotomi.
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Jul 10
Hi krajibg! I share my joy on how serious you view teaching children and the emphasis you placed on children to pick up the correct language skills, especially children of non-English mother-tongue. It's also a joy to know how you have substantiated language learning from the experience of teaching your own son successfully. As your son has acquired the sounds in English and not through something learnt, I know you have been an excellent teacher not just at home but in the College you teach as well. Your effort has certainly paid back. Thank you very much for this wonderful response. Have a nice day krajibg!
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
11 Jul 10
Yes absolutely! I've seen kids from different mother-tongues who speak each other's languages well during play. That somehow suggests kids learn better in language acquisition than adults. Exposure and the environment obviously help as well. Great to note your success story. Thanks for sharing krajibg!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
If there's one thing I would want to teach kids, I would teach them about the importance of virtue. There are so many things in life these days that make us forget the importance virtue and preserving our morality. People think its okay because everybody is doing it but its just a way for them to be deceived and not enjoy the kind of life that they ought to have in the future.
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
11 Jul 10
Hi p3ks626! You are such a wonderful person to have thought about some of these things. They say some things are easier caught than taught. But that doesn't mean we should forget about the teaching part. They should learn and be virtuous as they see that in you. Thank you for sharing! Have a nice day!
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
I'd like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony..lalala... OKay that's a song. Are you familiar with it? Anyway, seriously? I'd like to teach them to respect other people. As how they'd like to be treated by the others. Teach them that everyone has their own opinion on things, so we have to agree to disagree on a lot of things all the time. Don't talk as if what you think is the truth - because everyone has a version of their own truth. Hmm...another thing I'd like to teach would be that value of money and other things in life that most people take for granted. I already have a kid of my own, but he's only 5 years old (will turn 6 in a few months) - I don't think he's ready for my lessons yet. But I can't wait...
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
11 Jul 10
Yes kquiming, familiar with that song. Respect and the value of money - 2 great things for any kid to learn. I believe in starting young actually. Perhaps you would like to introduce them. It doesn't have to be formally and serious. Moms are great teachers too. And I see that you are. Thanks for sharing!
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
11 Jul 10
I would teach them to be selfconfident and humble. Nothing could beat them if they have that. And give them a lot of selfesteem for sure!
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
11 Jul 10
Hi katie! Self confidence ties in perfectly with self-esteem and does help one to be humble. That's something wonderful to teach kids to help them cope with life. Thanks for sharing! Have a nice day!
@sweetbit (75)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
I am a young mother with two kids now, a beautiful 2 year daughter and a 6 month old strong baby boy. Having them now is a very heavy job. If given the chance, all I would like to do is be with them 24/7 to monitor, look after them full time, feed them the right foods they need now at their age. But I can't because I need to make a living. Of course there is that urge that you want to be with them every second of the day to teach them all they need to know from manners, learning the basics of life--reading, talking, singing, etc. But so limited time, so much to do. Even though that is the case for us, I still try very much to make it a point that whenever they have me with them, I give my full attention and love and care in everything I show them. From the simplest form like when my 6 month old son looks at something, which I know he is very curious about, I tell him what is; describe it to him. Or my daughter, whenever she points at something in the mall which I know she really wants but I am unable to buy for her, I take time to explain why we can't have that this time. Even if it takes me minutes kneeling down to her level talking to her in whatever way I can so that she will understand. I don't care if people look at me. I just think that they think what a good mom I am to get to talk to my daughter that way. In all the things that I have just mentioned above, those are the things which I want my kids to learn which is wrapped up into this--- unconditional love. Please do not mistake this term as giving them whatever they want every time. As for me, it is the time and effort you give in showing these in all the variety ways to make them understand, see, believe, and apply important facts in their life. In turn what they get is the essence of unconditional love.
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
11 Jul 10
Hi sweetbit! I salute you! You are such a great mom! Besides your two kids to look after, you are working as well. I understand how hard it is for you to teach them as you would like to because you don't have that much time to. Seize the opportunity whenever you are with them to teach whatever incidentally happens around all of you. Teaching and learning would be very meaningful besides your time being well spent. And teaching them young is an excellent thing. By working to make a living and providing them your unconditional love you have already given them a picture of a good role model yourself. One I'm sure they would have learnt a lot as they copy you to become as hardworking, full of unconditional love themselves. Your effort should pay off. Thanks for sharing! Have a great day mommy!
@Joker25 (30)
10 Jul 10
Problem-solving and communication skills are pretty important, I think. I teach young children, and it's amazing how many cannot hold a conversation because it's not something that they experience at home. To facilitate this, we put children into small groups (of 4 or less) and give each child a role: writer, artist, ideas person, leader etc. We then give them a problem, or a project to work on (for example, designing a new kind of car for use in rural locations). The writer scribes everyone's ideas on a large sheet, the artist draws pictures so the rest of the class can visualise the idea, the ideas person suggests possibilities and the leader presents their work to the rest of the class. It works brilliantly once the children have had a chance to practice. I swap the roles around often so the children get a chance to try something different. I'm always amazed by the quality of their thinking.
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Jul 10
Hi Joker! I can see how seriously you view problem-solving and communication skills. And it's a delight to see how brilliantly you manage your class on this. It's simply great. Honestly I would have enjoyed your class as much as I've enjoyed reading it. These kids have not only learned but they learned it in a fun, interesting and exciting manner. Incidentally you have taught the value of teamwork which they have picked along the way. Thanks so much for your response. Have a nice day!
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
The very first thing I would like to teach them is reading the bible, from there they will learn how to love and how to give respect, have a good connection with GOD. for the IQ test I guess letting the children play will help them develop some of their skills, but never leave them alone, explaining things to them will help develop their understanding ability. And reading English books this will help them to communicate well using this language.
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Jul 10
Hi Zaphan! I agree to all you said. If you are as focused I see no reason they should not. Great! Thanks so much for the response. Have a nice day!
@Philip65 (91)
• Brunei Darussalam
13 Jul 10
one thing i would teach kids is to love and respect others as well as to care for the poor and needy.. even though they may be rich kids, i'd love to bring the understanding to them that on the other side of the world, there are those who are poor, sick and dying.. therefore, i've teach them not to take things for granted, not to waste thing unnecessarily and to be contented with who they are and what they have in life..
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
13 Jul 10
You have a wonderful heart Philip! From the responses I realize that kids today need to be taught respect, love and to care for the needy as well. Perhaps there's no better way than to be role models ourselves. Not to take things for granted, not to waste things and be contented with what we have are perhaps an outgrowth of our modern lifestyle worth looking as they are big and real. Absolutely, agree with you. Thanks for sharing!
• China
11 Jul 10
I cannot agree with you more . The parents should teach thier kids solve the problem from single to multiple . That babit is very important for children . It will have a good effect to the kids . Good topic .
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
11 Jul 10
Of course there are so many things to teach. Thought this would at least help them cope with their studies, with life... Thanks for your response woodman!
@xannex (254)
• Philippines
10 Jul 10
For me, I will teach my future child humility. 'Cause I think this is the number 1 characteristic of human that everybody will be pleased and all sort of good things will come and happen to his/her life. But if you like more on the IQ teaching. Practice your child's analysis skills. Having this skill taught will young will improve the childs IQ much greater than those iclined more on playing. Your's is good try teaching it in practice like handling money, I mean showing it too your child in real situation where he can really see the aspects and not only in papers. Have a bountiful life.
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Jul 10
'Humility' is a great thing to teach xannex! Another age-old virtue but still applicable and necessary today. That's great! Yes I take all your suggestions with me. Thank you so much for the response! Have a bountiful life too!
• United Arab Emirates
10 Jul 10
i would teach my childre everything that i could not do in life....apart from this i will teach them to speak the truth, however difficult it may be. I will teach them to have confidence on themselves and faith in GOD and he will never let them down.
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@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Jul 10
Hi edwardjoy! If they have faith in God teaching them to speak the truth and to have confidence will be very easy. As long as you focused I see no reason they shouldn't. Thank you so much for your response. Have a nice day!
@MrDollars (454)
• Australia
10 Aug 10
I would LOVE to teach them respect. So many kids lack this. It is just so sad. $-MrDollars-$
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
10 Aug 10
I have to agree with you too. It's one great value that never gets outdated. Still valid today.