saying "iloveyou"

haha =D IF not, what do u expect from me?? Sweetness does not necessarily come from saying 'iloveyou' right?? There are always many different ways to express ourself to our loved ones.. haha =D Being my gf?? IS gonna be bored, senseless and must be one whom loves nature, not afraid of the sun and rain.. haha =D

i just got surprised by the culture you have there.but never mind. i think it all depends on how we loved or show love to the people we really loved. yes,sweetness does not necessarily mean you always have to say iloveyou to the person you want to show sweetness and care. then,how do you express your love to certain someone,like your past gf's? bored,senseless? is that love? when you love a person you try to give all your best to show them how they really mean to you.well,i guess you are the one who likes to be pampered by girls,ot the one who is willing to give love and concern to people you love,how's that?

oh,that hurts! i didn't expect that would be your response on this one! you are not sweet with your past gf's huh? and to think you already had gf's haha!kidding! i don't blame you for that,cause as you said,it's not on your culture to say those words,but i think you should show them how you really feel.i just wonder how you let them know that you do love them? how those it feels like to be your girlfriend?i wonder! i'm not saying i'm applying for it,i am just curious,

yeah, i don't usually say that to him verbally...haha coz it sounds corny to us? but when i write him a letter or texted him or talk to him on phone, i do say those words. haha you really think that i am sweet? hehe i remember when my husband and i are still bf/gf, he told me that i am someone who don't have any sweetness on the body! haha, i agree with you on that misunderstanding thing with actions, hehe coz i think i have fall on such thing at one time or another, when i misunderstood someone's kindness and sweet treatment to me. haha what a shame! well i know it will not be too late for me, coz i have my own ay of saying those to them and letting them know how much they mean to me.

my sistah,i guess corny things makes a lot of sense when being said and heard from the ones you truly loved.i was once like you in my past.i usually think that my bf is corny but i know it comes from the bottom of his heart when being said.that's what i liked about him.he never fails to love and think of me,even though my feelings changed for him.he still loved me after all the things bad things i have done to him.i don't know why. oh?you are not a sweet person?hmmm...i guess i just want you to be, that's why i said it to you.hehe! cause i'm a sweet person.have you noticed it? i am sweet to those who are close to me.i wanted to let them feel my love and care for them by making them smile for a while. yes,sometimes actions will misunderstood by others.that's why it's better to talk things through.or if possible,you can have a hint what does someone really feel about you.well,i haven't experienced shame for misunderstanding feelings.cause most of the time,the person that i like,doesn't like me.or if i like them,they also like me.it's just that! most of the time,the ones i don't like really makes an effort of being noticed and i don't like it! hmmm,i wonder how you tell your friends you love them.

hello there,my sistah! oh?you don't usually say it even to your husband? i wonder why you seem so sweet but you don't usually say it? hmmm...well,i can understand you.for some reason i guess i'm like you.but if i really say those words,you'll know it exactly that i really do. same as you do,those words meant so much to me.and i wanted to hear it from my closest friends who became really part of me and i cherish the most specially those i treated like my sisters. i make sure that if i do say it,i mean it.and i don't play with those words. you can trust me on that! yeah,action speaks louder than words but smetimes when actions are being misunderstood,someone also might think that they loved you.it's just a matter of understanding by talking to each other.and i really do think that if someone is really special to you,make sure to say those words before you might know,it's too late!

Oh so you are romantic or sentimental? i have friends who can say I love you but they say it on my face and they are guys . So akward for me.

hmmmm...yeah,we all have different ways of telling people around us how much we loved them,but of course,they would really be touched when we say it to them.for some reasons,i wanted to hear those words from my family and closest friends as well,even if i know i am special to them.i still want to hear those words from them,cause it feels sweet when those words are uttered from those people you also loved as well. really touching,even in letters or text,i would feel really touched by hearing it from them.

yeah,you can say that! i'm romantic and kinda sentimental at times, oh?you have guy friends who tell you they love you right into your face? are they serious? or do they love you as a friend or more than a friend? i would really feel awkward for that.but depends also on how i knew the person. usually the guys who tell me those words really want to be my boyfriend, i haven't heard it from guy friends,cause i only have few guy friends as well. what did you say to them when they say say iloveyou to you?

what do you man by "Jesus" complex"? could you please elaborate more of it,for us to understand what you want to tell us here? by saying those words,it doesn't mean you truly love them.i guess it will be proven with actions.by combining the words and actions,it will be really felt.sometimes just by showing love through actions,or just a smile and reaching out a helping hand,it would be noticed.not just by words.cause words would have no meaning if it was not properly shown through actions.

wow,you are different my friend.yes,we all can try to reach out and help other people in anyway we can,despite how poor we are.for some reasons,we can always help in our little ways.who might know,those people who need our help will be there for us to help also in return.

A "Jesus" complex is my own term. Just as Jesus is supposed to love EVERYONE, so do I. You are CORRECT in your criticism. I was talking about the way I FELT and I am NOT perfect in my actions. Sometimes I have to disappoint people even though I love them, especially if they ask me for money when I don't have. I DO smile. I DO reach out a helping hand if it DOESN'T include money. I'm always ready to give the best advice that I can and even more important to LISTEN.

maybe if you try saying it to them,they will be touched and feels different when being heard.come to think of it,do you like to hear your friends say those words to you?

ah,yeah,that's what's really awkward when it comes to male genders.female genders really are much comfortable with this kinds of words,hehe. sorry,i forgot men are not usually saying those words,especially to male friends same as their genders,haha

I dont know.. I think it would be weird and awkward at the same time. Most of my friends are male, they might take it the wrong way. :P

hmmm....are you saying estern,western or eastern?i'm kinda confused on that. it's okay if you don't say those words but when you really do love a person make sure your actions say so.

oh?i guess it's not about cultures and like.but it depends on your characters if you really are an open person you can always say iloveyou to those who are really close to you,as long as you always mean it and show it.

I mean eastern people, like me who is a Chinese. But I think you are absolutely right.

yes,it is our very right to whom we should utter those words into.it's our own freedom to choose whoever we want to love.but if you really loved someone,it's really nice to tell them those words for it might be too late to let them hear it from you.make the most out of your life,and have fun.love everyone you wanted and needed to love.we all are here,to share love to each other.no matter who we are,as long as we reached out and show love to people.it's nice to be loved as well.just imagine a world full of love.what a wonderful feeling that would be,right?

hello there,shibam! nice to see you again. oh,i respect those people like you who don't usually say this words cause when you do,you really mean it by saying it.it's nice to hear it from people you know who truly cares and loved you,not just by saying it without even meaning it!

You just need to start on something to get used to it. We are the only one who knows how we really feel whether we say it or not. ^^

yes,you are right! it's worth it to try to show love,this way we'll know what would be their reaction is. and if we notice love in return,that's much better. show love and be loved also is such a wonderful thing. love can make us stronger person. if we know someone loved us,it's easier for us to fight for things worth fighting for!

yeah,mark?only for girlfriend,how come? maybe you should try saying it to family members who are close to you,if not friends who are close to you.but i don't blame you.i think it really needs to be used to saying those words when you really love them,don't be shy to tell that you really do love them.it really helps a lot to bring warmth to their hearts and so as yours.

Hey Mark... Just for your gilrfiend? How about to your parents,to your sis? Saying that word does not only applicable to one person...you can used this three words to anyone else that is important to you...LOLZ!

saying iloveyou is like a treasure for me.when i say it i really mean it. and those people you said that they have always the habit of saying those words whoever they meet won't have value on his/her words. i don't like that for some people would know it is just an ordinary words always used. saying iloveyou means touching everyone's hearts.it somehow gives warmth and appreciation towards others.and make sure to utter those words when you really love them,right?

i agree with u jkar. If we all keep going around saying that who will take as seriously? I think we should choose when and not to say i love you!!

yes,ninja! saying those words to whoever you met is really not good at all! those words really meant to be shared by those who are really close to each other and that's how it supposed to mean,when you truly love someone,it will show by your actions also,not only words.

hi tk!welcome to mylot! yeah,we all have to say those words specially when we really feel it the most.but always remember that words are not enough without showing actions also.you need to prove your love to them with actions as well.words when not combined with actions can be doubted.no one will trust our words if we can't prove actions through it. but yeah,like you i hardly find myself saying iloveyou to family members,specially parents,but i think i have done actions to prove my love.but it really needs to be with words also to let them know our true feelings for them.for them to realize that we value them and respect them and loved them as parents.

Oh, I guess it just takes time before saying it at first. Sometimes people tend to be shy or they feel like a child too much on saying those words. When people try to say it and just tell it deep inside their hearts, they will feel happy. And those first time can be repeated said that will make people get used to saying it... Sometimes we just have to get used to a certain thing for it to be normal...

Words are just words, my friend! It doesn't mean a thing if you don't do something to make it real. Just like those movie actors from hollywood who came here in the Philippines and then suddenly saying " MAHAL KO KAYO". It doesn't mean a thing cause for them it's just words. People are just happy to hear that they can use those words and speak it evewn if it is not their native language. Loving means the whole world if you really can express it through actions. They say, actions speaks louder than words. So be it. Words are not enough to be heard when it is not felt.

of course,you have to show them how you really care and love them.it's not enough if it's just words being spoken.you have to show the real meaning of that words because saying it without actions is useless.it's like you are just letting them know that you are not true to your words.

yes,sometimes writing letters for those who really mean to us helped though.for it can be a way of expressing oneself.you can write those things you can't say personally.by doing these,someone would know how special they are to you.i liked writing to friends,for it is my way of letting them feel they mean so much to me. what happened to your husband? and how about your parents,my friend? it's really important if we say it and same time mean it.words are not enough to be spoken when it's not being expressed.

yes,you have to say it when you really feel it the most. saying it without showing means untrusted.and you are like fooling people with your words. i just don't like how it feels like saying it then the fact is too far frrom those words being spoken,too bad!

you are a sweet person,that's what i guess.am i right? yes,we should let them know how they mean to us.if we care about them and really felt that they are special to us,they really deserve those sweet words from us.but sometimes however close i am to my friends i just don't say those words to them.i just let them feel it.and most of the time,i do write them for i am the one who can express myself through writings.not words.but if i have chance,yes i truly show them by actions.

yeah,as much as possible try to tell or at least show them how you really feel or how they mean to you.it's better to share your thoughts and feelings than left unsaid that will make you hate yourself in the end.

hi there jonnah,yeah we need friends to help make ourselves strong enough to face our lives with. friends are always there to cheer us up in times of sadness and pain.they are the ones who helped us make a better individual for some reasons. you just have to value them and cherish what you have.it's just nice to have real friends around.