Do you still have a childhood friend?
By marguicha
@marguicha (223777)
Chile
July 10, 2010 6:23pm CST
I do. I have a friend I met when I was 9 or 10 years old. Many things have happened to each of us in rather long lives, including her living in another country for many years. But we are still best friends and now, with msn, skype and all the new technology, we can have long phone visits everyday and send each other pictures of the family. The last time I saw her was in 2006. I was visiting a niece in Mexico and she came to visit too. We both slept in a bunk in the floor. She made the bed because I have my back surgery and she has been in yoga for decades now
Do you have a friend from childhood? How is your relation? How long has it lasted? Our friendship is around 55 years old
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17 responses
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
11 Jul 10
I have a childhood friend who is in my village. I work in town so when I go home for hoildays, I would bring him to my house and we would spend hours talking of our young days. Since he failed school and stayed in the village, I give him presents I bought from twown. I enjoy see smiles on his face.
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
11 Jul 10
I sweet of you! But I´m sure that you get a lot of pleasure when you give him your presents. I have learned that the pleasure of giving sometimes is bigger than the pleasure of recieving. I hope you and your friend continue your friendship forever.
@moonchild1au (6237)
• Australia
11 Jul 10
My best friend & I have been friends since grade 2 back in 1984 which is 26 years ago...we do lose contact every so often like in the past 3 years but we jut pick up where we left off when we catch up again.
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
11 Jul 10
Don´t let her do away, freind. Now, with all the technology, we can keep in contact a lot better than before.
@moonchild1au (6237)
• Australia
11 Jul 10
She has disappeared from facebook & I have tried her email address & no response (it's a hotmail account) so maybe I will have to resort to the old fashioned letter writing & send it to her parent's house.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
11 Jul 10
I do have friends from childhood. When u live in the same town as i have most of my life it just happens. There is nothing like old friends u have had all your life.
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
11 Jul 10
I have this feeling with Monica (and she shares it) that we are each other´s diary. Many times we just begin a sentence and the other knows how to end it. I had not seen her for over 10 years when we met again, about 20 years ago. Everything fell into place as though we had never stop seeing each other.
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
11 Jul 10
A fifty five year old friendship, that’s great! It is a real gift to have such an old and dear friend. I no longer see anyone from school. I went to school in Italy for the first five years and we moved to Australia when I was ten. I did keep in touch with my Italian school friends until I was sixteen and I went back to visit them all. It was nice to catch up and amazed at how we all changed in six years! I caught up with them again at twenty five when I travelled to Italy again but that was the last time. I have been back since but could not get in touch with anybody. As far as friends from school in Australia I only have one on Facebook from sixth and seventh grade and that is about it. Shame, I would have liked a good old friend like you have…
@Wabuge (45)
• Kenya
11 Jul 10
Hi There,
I have to appreciate the fact that int this world friends are like family to us and they form a big part of our lives as when we get to a place where we are not known and don't know anyone we make friends to act as family to us and be a big part of our lives where we seek comfort and a sense of belonging.
I do have a friend whom we began school with when we were like 7 years old. they are two of them and now we are 23 years each. the two are now in the U.S as they won greencards last year December. i just wish Australia did have greencards too as thats my country off choice.
Technology has helped me find long lost friends on the internet like facebook and now even we are on Mylot. i am happy that we keep in touch and that life has to go on since we all have different interests and we share a lot of the past when life was so simple full of playful games and no worries.
Now life makes us have little time with our friends due to the fast modern life but what i believe is that we should not let our friends go but keep in touch always.!
Cheers Mate..!
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
11 Jul 10
I hope you stick together with your friend. Nw that you live in another country, being together will help you both as you will feel each of you is the other´s family.
Take care!
@sanmisam01 (8)
• United States
11 Jul 10
I cannot but envy such relationship, I have not been, should i say, commited enough to keep that long a friendship. I am a little sceptical about friendship probably because of some experiences of the past so I tend to keep people at arms length. I think its safer that way but your kind of experience makes me wonder if Im right. I would really like to know hoe it feels to be friends for such a long time...
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
14 Jul 10
I think one cannot judge friendship from a bad experience nor think that all friendships are wonderful either. I never keep people at arms lenght because I have the idea that we cannot judge everyone for what one person has done to us.
If I were you, istead of envying me, I´d see where my childhood chums are now and if I have something to say to any of them.
Take care.
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
11 Jul 10
I hope you find your childhood friend. It´s wonderful to have such a friend, I know by experience.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Jul 10
The one I am touch with from the farthest back is somebody I met in elementary school when I was probably 8 or 9. She found me on classmates.com and e-mailed me. We aren't in touch all that often, but we do drop each other a line once or twice a year. After that, I am still in touch with two people that I knew in Jr. High and High School and a half dozen college friends.
@neildc (17239)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
16 Jul 10
i still have one friend whom i met during our childhood. she is actually one of my best friends. we were classmates in our grade school too. we still meet regularly with other friends until our college days.
when we starting working, we separate ways. i went across the country and she went out to seek a better future. she now works in one arab country.
we still find time to get in touch through instant messages and emails, and through social networking sites like facebook.
we came to meet the last time, about 3 years ago. she happened to took a month long vacation with her family. and at that time, my mom was still alive but already bed-ridden. i hugged her and kissed her when i see her. her husband and kids were shocked.
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
11 Jul 10
Hiya margi,
I have friends who I did´nt realize were my Friends they are not best friends but they are friends that will gladly help you out when you most need it. I have been able to find many things out about other situations going on in England that would have gone totally unnoticed by me. So thanks to these kind of friends I am much wiser and happier in spite of the fact that I have had so much against me there are so many people in one area where I lived that know me better than my own so called Relatives. I went to School with them and in spite of the time that has gone by they still hold a flag for me and me for them.
That´s very nice to be able to have a friendship like that I was not able to have friends like that for a few reasons out of my control. But that is a nice story.
@mohitseth (568)
• India
11 Jul 10
My name is mohit and my age is 23 years.I met a person in 1991 and we were school mates that time and i was 4 at that time.He is my best friend from 19 years and we share every little things with each other as i live far from him but still i talk to him daily through phone calls or sms.I think childhood friends can understand as much as our parents.
@allknowing (137771)
• India
12 Jul 10
After combing the area far and wide for classmates I managed to organise 2 get togethers some of them I have been in touch with right from our school days. We are regularly in touch over the phone and also meet occasionally.
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
11 Jul 10
Yes i had a couple of childhood friend when i was 5 years old and we used to be inseparable. We always used to laugh and talk and have fun with each other and we also used to play together. Now i am 19 and although they have lost contact with me for a couple of years i managed to find them and they haven't changed one bit. We were like the three musketeers. We still remember each other very well and i thank facebook for reuniting us once again.
@marguicha (223777)
• Chile
11 Jul 10
Stay in contecy with themand you will have an endless source of happiness
@elmacron19 (17)
• United States
11 Jul 10
yes i have. we met when we was exatly the same age 7 years old lol
@yugasini (12893)
• Secunderabad, India
11 Jul 10
hi marguicha,
really it is great friendship of 55 years long together,but i too have a friend from childhood means from high school that is from 1965 means 45 years,now both of are nearing for 60 years,his name is P Pavan Kumar,recently he was retired from the commercial tax department of Andhra Pradesh as Assistant Commercial Tax office,he is living in our place itself regularly he will meet me at my work place or i will call him over phone,he is my family friend,his wife and my wife names are common as P Sasikala his wife name and K Sasikala my wife name,some times they will come to my house and some times i will go to his house,he and she are knowing Astra logy,so regularly i am visiting his house for some suggestions of regarding Astra-logy,he prefer mostly traveling with me to the places ,we will share all the secrets of our life each other,i am having two sons ,he is also having two sons,no daughters for both of us,he is having own house,but i does not have own house,he is having motor vehicle and i do not have vehicle etc etc,have a nice day
@jugsjugs (12967)
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11 Jul 10
I am 39 years old, i have a friend from school that i still see nearly every single day aswell as we are forever chatting on the phone.I think that there are few other people that i still see once in a while that i used to go to school with aswell as still see.I think that it is great that we all live in the same area as to where we all grew up aswell as all hung around together.