misunderstanding or manhid?

@yunako (74)
Philippines
July 11, 2010 4:55am CST
when the girl takes care of the boy, he thinks its love but it's friendship..when the boy takes care of the girl, she thinks it's friendship but it's love..
7 responses
• Portugal
11 Jul 10
wowwww never heard that before ^^ thats cute^^ anyway not always when a guy cares for a girl is love. i had a best friend i thought he could maybe love me too but he just hurt me and ignored and despised me like if i meant nothing :( anyway sometimes girls care too and the guy thinks is friendship. i like those stories when the guy or the girl understand later when he is losing the friend that he loves the person^^ and does all to have the person back^^
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
i've read stories like that on pocketbooks hehe. sorry to hear about your bestfriend.maybe what his feeling for you is plainly friendship and nothing more than that.sometimes people weigh the situation carefully, as what to choose.love or friendship.because as there is also a saying,friends can be lovers but lovers cannot be friends. though i dont believe on this line.sometimes it happens to some people though..
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
Hmmmm... I dont really get it but basing on the title, its misunderstanding cause its not understandable. I think its complicated that we sometimes hope there were more things that were said to enlighten us.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
Girls basically need assurance that they are loved by guys.They want to hear exactly the magic 3 words.On the other hand, guys are basing more on actions.So these bring confusement if not really openly communicated.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
Opposites as we say have different interpretations or understanding to a certain action of one. We have different languages so to speak. The only way to break the gap is to speak out. One should tell what his actions mean.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
yeah, so true. unfortunately, some values also affect each other to initiate the move to speak up hindering one to express his/her feelings.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
for some people this may be true. but i think it's the lack of honesty and words that causes misunderstanding. for example, if the boy who's in love with the girl is not SAYING anything , then the girl would just safely assume it's friendship. and as for girls, it's not true that when we take care of boys it's always just friendship. sometimes it could be something more. but then it all depends on the girl's personality, because some girls are just naturally caring and friendly. so conclusion is, misunderstanding doesn't have to happen IF ONLY there is honesty and openness in communication as well as maturity in handling situations like this.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
wrong assumption on one's action leads to misunderstanding.there are instances that sometimes boys are just assuming on the little care and kindness shown to girls unto them.there are girls who are just affectionate to their friends and these are misinterpreted by guys.on the other way, maybe a girl is used with affection shown to her by a guy because it's the same with what have shown by her guyfriends.on the part of the guy, much effort for him to show the feelings but sadly the girl ddint take notice of it..
@mohitseth (568)
• India
11 Jul 10
Yes my friend i think your words are true.I think its the common feeling between boy and girl.If you love somebody than say them what you feel about them before its too late.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
just being true to yourself and expressing what you feel..=)
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
How the message be convey if there are no words spoken along this situation. it would be good to speak sometimes so that you will not be misunderstood by the person. I would not consider it as manhid unless you keep on doing it and you know from the start that it would not go to something beyond friendship.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
perhaps boys and girls have different understanding on affections shown to each other.that's why even though action speaks louder than words, still words have to be spoken for clarification.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
hi yunako, I guess it is more of misinterpretations that lead to misunderstanding at all after all has laid on the following behaviors. You know, some people or friends in any relationship wanted this issue not talked about for they have that rejection or being misinterpreted after all what has given like care and understanding. It depends on the person who give, and at person who receive that kind of actions. And how he can consider that kind of relationship they have. However, most of the cases that when the actual truth was revealed of the true situations, the possibility that their relationship may be affected if one of them had felt the rejection of the love he has given, and might have considered things in a misunderstood way. I agree with you these happen to many cases.Because, sometimes when we show concerns, it does not come from the mind, but from the real heart of the person. HAppy mylotting