Have you seen your loved one in pain?
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
United Arab Emirates
July 11, 2010 9:03am CST
I had seen my dad pass away in front of my eyes. He was addicted to alcohol. He was in the hospital for 20 days; his liver, kidney and pancreas were affected. I have seen him in pain. Have you seen something like this????
9 responses
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
This morning my mother was moaning in pain. She said she want to throw up and feel dizzy. the moaning scares me, that was before 5am and it's hard to come back to sleep after we let her drink a paracetamol and my sister massage her hands. I was scared because just last Saturday my father was diagnosed to have a diabetes, and then my mother have a severe flu. Maybe she have relapsed because she had a flu last Sunday and still she done the laundry. I was scared of losing both of my parents. As much as I want to help, actually I am helping them but i feel I am not helping them at all. I feel I am not useful in my family. But I have to think positive. I know I can surpass this one.
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
hi grecy,always have faith! don't lose hope cause your parents will suffer more if they see you sad.be strong and don't let them see that you are giving up.it's a way of helping them also.it's hard to see your parents suffering from such situations.i may be also like you for my both parents are always being rushed to hospitals because of their sickness.they are getting old.but i know God will have plans for all of us.just trust Him and don't let go.for He will lead us to better life.
@frozenphoenix (530)
• India
11 Jul 10
yes i have seen my old grand mother having accidents and breaking bones.....
i have seen my sister go to hospital because of kidney stones..
i think everyone has atleast one experience of such kind. dont you?
@creationhub (3066)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 10
My late mother may have passed on since 2004. But I still remember vividly her pain and sorrow during the last moments. I believe she felt that she has not completed a lot of things in life. Still, my memories will be always be very fond of her.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
11 Jul 10
Yes I have seen people close to me in terrible pain. I would rather be the one in pain than the one watching another when I cannot help them.
@akhileshnigam (494)
• India
11 Jul 10
yes,same was the case with my mother ,she was ill for 10 yrs ,we tried to improve things ,but could not
@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
11 Jul 10
hi edwardjoy2000!
of course i have seen my love ones cry for help due to pain and it hurts me to see them go through such situation... i don't like seeing people who shows helplessness emotions..
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
11 Jul 10
Yes i have seen my lover in pain. Mental pain not physical. She was going through a rough stage when she lost the one she loved because he had betrayed her by going out with another girl whom he liked. Shes still in the same problem till now. She can't get over the fact that he didn't want her.
My relative had recently got blood cancer and she had undergone treatment for like 2 years but she didn't make it. She has two kids and the worst part is that they don't know that their mom will never come back again.
Somwtimes i wonder why does God does this injustice?
