What are your views on cheating?

Cheating is definitely a BIG no no for me. I am a one-man woman and I expect my man to be the same. My boyfriend experienced being cheated on by his ex. He did take her back but there relationship went downhill from then on. Things still did not work for them and eventually, they did break up. For you vulgarlittleprincess, I do hope you will find a guy who will make you his only woman. :)

Hi, I don't think anyone knows how deeply the pain goes when you find out that your partner has cheated. The pain is nothing you would wish on your worst enemy. Sometime, I know we get caught up in the moment where we stop thinking logically and we also forget about the consequences of this lustful act. That is what it is, a lustful act. I don't think, no, I know I could not be with a partner that cheated and I found outabout it. If I stayed, everytime we made love I would think about him be with another partner, if he was comparing, if he had a diease, etc. I would evenually forgive him, but from afar. I love life and I love whom I am with, but if the person doesn't feel that way about me, then we have nothing to talk about. Later Gator.

I think cheating is unacceptable. I do not feel it is forgivable, because it shows the cheater has a lack of respect for the other person. As far as being the "other woman (or man)", if they (honestly) did not know then I can see forgiving him/her. If he/she DID know, then I would hold them as accountable as the cheater. Do I feel the cheater deserves to be "torn a new one"? No. I don't think it would accomplish anything, I think it would only cause more grief & heartache for the person who was cheated on. If the person who was cheated on decides to stay with the cheater, time & time & time again, then I feel no remorse for that person because they show a general lack of self-respect. And if you can't respect yourself, how do you expect others to respect you?

I don't want to cheat and I don't want to be cheated on, that is very clear. No matter what shortcomings I have or flaws I have, it isn't fair to cheat on me as well as it is not fair to cheat on the person who trust me. As being the other woman, well, there were times I was desired by a married man or someone committed to someone else already. I often got myself into that situation.:-( Albeit it made me feel more desirable and sexier but I wasn't proud of it, I despised it, on the other hand. I don't have to be that woman to have higher self esteem and pride.:-) I have more better qualities to offer, thus, I don't settle for the "next best" thing.

As someone who has been cheated on, this topic cuts close. Before my experience, however, I had little respect for people who were unfaithful. In my opinion, if the relationship means so little to a person that they are going to have an affair, they should simply end the relationship. It just seems so greedy to want the best of both worlds. When I found out that my girlfriend had cheated on me, I immediately ended the relationship. I could not see any point in continuing with it - even though I loved her and had planned on proposing - as the trust had gone. I would never be able to feel one hundred per cent confident that she was not cheating and, as she felt so little respect for me in the first place, I was not going to put myself in a position of further hurt and heartache.

from my point of view, 'don't do unto others what you don't want done on to you'.. so i won't cheat, because i wouldn't want my partner to do it to me. and if she does cheat on me, i'd just have to let her go... because it's obvious that she would prefer to go out with someone else if she thinks about cheating in the first place..

well i don't support cheating. i mean if you can't stick to a single person then why the hell are you playing with someone's sentiments? you should be a Casanova if you want different bodies every nite. plus about forgiving. any mistake done by chance can be forgiven but when person deliberately cheated on his/ her partner then i think he should get a kick on his d***.. that's what they deserve..

For me, cheating is all about cheating one's self. It is also a form of selfishness because they didn't care for the feelings of others. They only fool there selves because they though they would be happy for it but in the end they will be sorry for there selves.

Well sweetie pie , I treat the people the way they treat me , if they are true with me , I am true with them , if they cheat me , i dont get angry or get anoid with them, I slightly cheat them right under there nose and make them angry. In your case it looks that u are not for one man material, you want to enjoy your Body to the full. can we meet some time and have fun

Cheating is not good for us.But sometimes cheating can help people in some conditions.It is said that the cheating is called boon cheating.Boon cheating is widely used by people in daily life.Especially used by men in the world.

I think cheating is a bad thing because in this only the normal person is cheated and intelligent one take benefit of this because in this world lot of people are cheaters and the cheaters cheat us but in the childhood this cheating is beneficial in the childhood because its help up to increase our marks.

I think we are all human beings and deserve one chance. I will forgive anyone chaeting me once. but i dont think my heart will be able to take it for the second time. i am also a human being and my heart will not permit me to give another chance. But deep inside my heart i will fell that i have lcaked something that made someone cheat on me. i will definately work on it.

I think cheating on someone is terrible and I don't think very highly of cheaters. I would never let a man two-time on his girlfriend with me and would never be ok with being the "other woman". That said, I might be willing to forgive someone for cheating on me once (but only one) depending on how invested I was in the relationship.

i definitely don't approve of cheating..either i'm the one who's being cheated by my boyfriend or me as the third party... i know i can never forgive my boyfriend if he ever do this to me... it is not acceptable...and i would even prefer it if he breaks up with me than me learning that he's cheating behind my back..that's more painful to me... I will never be the other woman...because as a girl i know how it will feel like to be cheated... so i will never accept a guy who is cheating on their girlfriends...because i can already see his attitude of being a cheater..if he cheated on her..,he can actually do that too when we are couple already... so i'm definitely not a fan of cheating...

Its very hard to forgive if my girl has cheating me, and with that concept I never think gonna cheat on her. Life is always full of chance, so if we have any commitment with someone I think we must appreciate that. If the other side you have some one that make you feel more sexier and you like it, you just think what if your partner feel the same with some body else.