How to judge a person is a good person?

Hi There, I would like to comment on this post basing on our today's society. you have to notice that there are basic things that one does in order to be considered good or bad. basing on ones behavior and character and their way of life as culture too plays a bigger role in our modern lives. I have to put it to you that everyone have their own way to distinguish between the good an the bad basing on how much we share in common. a good example is that a bully may regard a disciplined student as being a fool and an easy catch to harass but, a fellow bully as a man and a mate to team up. So basing on you principles shall you judge one to be "GOOD" OR "BAD". normally what i do is try check if this person does greet you when you meet and depart, does he appreciate any little thing that you do to him/her, does he care about you? this are some of the few that one should check on someone you have just met for a few days. What about when one is a stranger? does he/she make a request or order you, their language is it polite or just over the limit. how is your eye contact; mild or polite. These are a few rhetorics that one should ask themselves before making a judgment basing on your principles in which good and bad lie. Cheers Mate!

i didn't had any practical experience in it as i didn't met a situation to judge a person on streets or roads. but, i made small study on judging people by seeing their hand writing and signatures. i don't say that i'm completely successful there. but 70-80% of my analysis shown me suitable situations. now, i'm trying to know how to judge people by seeing their facial expressions and sudden change in them. do u know? human face will be showing 60,000 expressions on an average human body.

you cannot judge a person in just one sight. the most accurate and reliable judgment we can give to a person is by staying with him with time. it takes for you more than a month to figure it out his true identity. the appearance of a person may only account less than half of his total value. more identities lie inside himself and its for you to discover. a person himself is full of secrets and surprises. no one knows each other so really accurate. even your parents may miss some of your real identity. some people maybe blinded by your true nature. the only one who knows you exactly is the creator.

I feel one has to talk to the other person before we get a fair idea.Even then how are we certain?It will take a few meetings before we can understand the person.Once we know the person we can judge whether they are good or bad.

its not easy to judge someone specially just based on what we see nor hear. best thing to know them is in times of troubles and if they will stay no matter what. its so easy to pretend while your infront of other people so you cant predict if they are good or bad unless you stay with that person for many times.

An ancient Chinese byword says "Painting a tiger's skin is easy, but not so the bones. A man's face one can know, but not his heart." So it's really difficult to judge a person in short time, and impossible to judge a person from appearance. As you say judging a person good or bad only from a meeting in the street, I personally think that will not be correct, at least not comprehensive.

You can't judge a person without knowing him to you should spent time with him and try to know how is he and what he does.By this way you can know about him.