Does someone need to find true love or wait for it?

Philippines
July 12, 2010 8:04am CST
I have a friend who is a member of NBSB ( No Boyfriend since Birth ) because she is afraid of getting hurt and doesn't easily trust someone. She asking me is she needs to find that special someone or should she waits for it because she's not getting any younger. If you were on my shoe, what should you tell her?
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• Philippines
27 Jul 10
hi there! i do not agree that we should find love. we should wait for it. because i believe that love has right timing. we should just wait until it comes. besides we should not worry about it. because god has plans for everything and for everyone. we just have to be patient about it. there are lot of things about life that we should give our time and priority. let love have its own. i did not wait for love, i focus myself on more important things because i know one day it'll come as a big blessing! and it did. so if it worked for me, it'll work for everyone. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
Thanks for your very nice advice. It was so positive and uplifting. I will tell it to my friend. :-)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
never gets tired of trying..because if she'll not try to love again..shel'll never find the right guy.. because the perfectness of things can be found on trying..keep on trying to find the perfect one for her.. go go go cause love can be your inspiration too..if shes hurt in the past, then use it as a source of her learning and strength..so that if someone comes her way again, she know already how to handle things..pain makes people strong so dont be afraid to accept risks..its only a flavor of living.. it could turn you a better person. i know you can do it girl..
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
tell her not to surrender..if shes getting older.. she must learn to take the risk.. get hurt, its normal... she must also learn how to move on to find her true love..
@ivygrey (550)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Tell her to explore!!What I meant is if she is no longer very young, She should open her heart and try to go out on dates, or maybe meet new guys. Go on a group date.. or anything that will actually help her to meet new people. If she would just sit in the corner and do nothing.. Love won't just come like that.
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
Yeah! That's the point. But she's a kind of girl who doesn't want to do the first move ( me either :) ). The problem I think, is she doesnt have any guy friends so she has no idea of getting along with boys.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
11 Nov 10
True love should come to you. You should be willing and patient to wait for it. sometimes we try to help true love along. in those cirumstances, it might not have been true at all.
• Malaysia
12 Jul 10
In my opinion, one should look for true love. If a person just sits around and does nothing, the possibility of him or her finding the one true love is totally very low. So, you have to keep on looking, you just can't wait because time flies and furthermore, people don't get younger, they grow older. Yes, I know, it's easier said than done...but i guess that's the way our life is. We have to keep on looking until we find the true love.
• India
26 Jul 10
In life every one wants their partner to be gentle and trust worthy.But its not that easy to get a boy whom we can trust so easily. Speciously these days, its very hard to find a good partner.If you have seen any one who likes you, just don't jump into the relationship then and there to avoid from getting hurt. First study that person properly, try to grab all the informations from his friends..so that you will know more about him.. I would better suggest you that you can wait for that special person so that he can study you as well.
• United Arab Emirates
12 Jul 10
if she is waiting for ture love...i would davise her to wait. But at the same time she needs to create a picture in her mind the qualities she is looking for in her love. I too had a friend who didnt want to fall in love...all her friends had bf's but she didnt. All the girls used to call her miss attitude. But finally she fell in love and now she has decided to marry the same guy.