Can you make friends in your profession.

@1anurag1 (3576)
India
July 12, 2010 2:38pm CST
Can you make friends in your profession. I think this is a really hard task. Some companies don’t want that you should have friends. But this is needed to be happy at work place and to get the satisfaction level at mind. But professionally you are in competition with your colleagues , so you will not be in state to be the real friends of them. What are your views.?
5 responses
• United Arab Emirates
12 Jul 10
yes i can...being a marketing manager its important for me to have a good relation with one and all. I have to make friends and build rappot with all. I have a good repution with all my collegues.
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@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
13 Jul 10
thanks for the response.
@maiaman (97)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
Personally I think it is possible. But friends in this kind of environments do have limitations and boundaries because you have to understand that ,yes, you are in a competitive environment. You may not always take it personally when things are done or things are said that are related to work because it is different at work. It is best that these friends should not be the friends that you tell your deepest darkest secrets because they may use this against you. You however can have these friends to hang out and have fun every once in a while to de-stress from the workload that you have
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• Philippines
13 Jul 10
as an HR Specialist i do have lots of friends.. their is nothing wrong being friends with co workers,.... i think it will help you professionally.. But also you need to make sure the limitation of being friends and with work...
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
15 Jul 10
I've not worked outside the house in the last four years. However, in the last job that I had before I decided to be a stay at home mother, no, it really wasn't easy to make friends with the people that I worked with because the field was mostily individual work. However, in the job prior to that, I actually made friends that I still possess today and it has been over five years since I worked there. That job was in a hospital and I worked as a nursing assistant.
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
hi there, im a nurse, and ye sin my profession making friens is a very important virtue... We cared a lot of patients everyday and reaching out to them and establishing rapport is very important and useful in gaining their trust to make care a lot easier to the patient..In your situation yes all of you are in a competition especially if your grabbing for a promotion, but lets be professional, yes in working hours you are all in competition but outside the office hours of off from work its much better to hang out together and be friends, thats how a professional individual acts..
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