Best friend has spread a false rumor about me!

First stop calling this A$$hole your best friend . No real best friend would Ever do this to you. Then stop all contact with him , I mean have his email blocked and lose his cell number.then think about a secret he told you and tell Everyone. And I mean Everyone! Then when he tries to contact you , ignore him.

Hi Blue, Can't imagine a good friend doing this to you but I really don't think revenge will in the long run make you feel better. I think the best thing to do would be to tell these people just what you have said here....the truth. In the end that will be your sweet revenge. She will be exposed for the liar that she is as well as being a bad friend. It's natural revenge.....the truth. Also, you may want to re-think this friendship. She doesn't sound like a very nice person. How does this guy feel about the rumors?

some time collect proof and eyewitness regarding his statement ,then speak to him politely and firmly ,tell him that you do not like these things ,perhaps things will get sorted

Not good. What is wrong with people? I wonder what made him do this, since you have not hacked him off. Some clueless type of jealousy? If he won't own up now chances are he will not later. Revenge? I can understand that. It probably would be quite easy too; but what would you gain by it? Easy for me to say, sat behind my keyboard, but chalk it up to experience. You are already one up on him since you now know he can't really be trusted. There is a saying... "Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer still." If you fall out with him he is most likely to make it his business to slate you to everyone anyway. Keep him thinking that everything is OK and you will probably minimise the damage. If, later, you still want to get your own back, do so when you are not upset about it. He will have forgotten, and won't see it coming. Try to be cool for the moment. Other friends will respect you more for it. T/C.

Take on to the process. You should know first the truth before confronting anyone else. It's the safest thing to do. You shouldn't waste your time on that person whom you consider best friend from the start. Make the best decision out of it and be guided.

will you could put him on sarectaics and sared the hell out who ever liyng on you know but dont let get you mad because everone is going to think it true you know thats how it is some times it is hard to kkep things to self even thoguht you didnt do any thing if you show them that your mad they will belive your friend you know and thats why you should find a tv show and get him back that or her back that way just think on a way how you can get them on cm,area and then put it on youtube you know thats idea but you take care

When they ask, tell them he's covering up for actually dating the guy himself...

you sure the loser guy isn't the one doing the spreading?(or at least some of it) i've had that happen to me when i wouldn't date this jerk and i wanted to punch the guy in the face.

If this "friend" of yours is maliciously spreading false rumors about you; and you want to "get back" at your "friend," you two are not really friends. Friends don't act this way with each other. Friends should be able to discuss the situation so both will know the truth and can deal with it.

Hi, Best friends never want to hurt or humiliate or lie on, each other. I am wondering if you are the only one of two who thinks that you are best friends. That being said, I would have no other choice but to ask my best friend why he felt the need to do this. If you are sure, without doubt that he did this, you must, tactfully approach the issue. Then, depending on his answer and if you accept his apology, you can decide if you are still best friends. Could you trust him not to do it again????? Take care

hi dear!..we both wear the same shoes, however, I just ignore her because giving my attention to her simplifies that I was affected. Rumors will gradually die if you ignore it. Show yourself to the other people that what was spread by your best friend were all false and unsubstantial. Do not allow yourself to be controlled by his false judgment instead hold his neck tightly by smiling and ignoring him. The best way to put your enemy into shame is our act of kindness.

If I were in your position and I am most certain that my friend was the one who spread the rumor I will confront my friend and tell him exactly what I feel. I will tell him, even if he denies it, that I don't like what he did and it hurts me a lot. I will let him know how I feel about the other guy. Maybe your friend is gay and is jealous or whatever. Or maybe your guy friend actually likes you and he just wants to hear from you what you feel about this other guy. No matter what the reason is you still have to let him know how you feel and that you want him to understand that. If he still wants to be you friend then he must fix the damage that has been done and apologize to you for hurting you. Otherwise it maybe better to cut the ties of your friendship for good because it is not the right way to treat a friend.

Hi Blue, I too am having problems with my best friend but not like your problem. I think maybe this guy is not as good a friend as what you think because friends let alone best friends don't tell lies behind each others backs. My friend and I may not be getting along too well at the moment but we are still friends and neither of us would ever say lies about the other. I would suggest that if you are really serious about getting revenge that you don't think of him as a friend anymore so maybe you could wait awhile and then do the same thing to him. Remember that revenge is a dish best served cold. Good luck.

i can't imagine how your good friend do this to you... what is the real score behind... you trust him but he betrayed you...but i think revenge was not good way of getting back...try to be patience... look for other way to talk to him maybe that guy was afraid of what he's doing....stay close to your friend and forgive that guy if he try to aks for forgivenesss...

Is there a possibility that your best friend is innocent and the one really spreading the rumor is the guy that you were suppose to date? You really need to ask your friend about this and see the reaction that you get from him. In the mean time if you are asked about this tell the truth. If your friend really started the rumor then you need to realize that as much as you like this person he is not your best friend, end of subject. For a friend, and especially a best friend, would never do this to a friend.

I think that your best friend has been very nasty spreading a false rumor about you. When I was working in an office my friend thought that I liked a particular guy that I didn't fancy at all. I would have been very upset if she had spread false rumors about me and him dating. We didn't date but we did have to work as part of a team. I suggest that you keep your eye on your best friend and make sure that they tell the truth in the future. I don't think getting revenge would be the right thing for you to do. If you did that your best friend might say something even worse. Good luck.

whoaa...i guess u should make press conference so everyone know that that is only rumor

Try to defend yourself against those rumors and as much as possible avoid your friend but don't show it obviously, you must distance yourself from this friend. Do not think of any revenge because it is a sign of weaknesses, just try to prove yourself worthy to others anyway the truth will prevail in the end. Personally, I also encountered this type of situation before so what I did is wrote a long article about the incident and presenting my version and put it on my blog site and let my friends read about it, in the end my friends finally understood my side. Writing is the most artistic way of taking revenge.lol!

you say nothing to the friend and when they come and ask you want is wrong and i hope it is in the room full of people that was listening to the rumor and blow up in her faces so everyone can here it and then they will know it was fault but there is no reason to hurt the guys feelings men have feeling to belive it or not

well, I think he is not your best friend at all. Get over it an move on.