DILEMMA of FRIENDSHIP???

@yunako (74)
Philippines
July 12, 2010 11:48pm CST
if you're afraid to love a person because of friendship, what choice shall you take?say what you feel and let love takes place or forever have love under a friendship full of pretendings?
3 responses
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
you must say what you feel^^ maybe your friend also loves you^^ it happened to me before and i told him i loved him^^ he didnt love me back but at least i was honest with him. i think we must tell how we feel maybe we have the luck that the person love us too^^ before i thought he had a bit of feelings for me but then he started to change :( anyway was a very sad story :( im not sure if i should had tell him bcs his reaction but i couldnt hide it bcs i really wanted him to love me too and be happy. so i think we must always tell. we have nothing to lose^^ we just can win right?^^
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
thank you so much for your comment.you give me encouragement.now im having thought og telling him what i feel no matter what the result.i must be strong to face the consequence of my action and maybe i can find out that he loves me in return..
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I agree with rorich, everything starts out as friendship then sometimes end up into love. However, it all depends if you reallly want to tell him or just let the universe unveil your own feelings about him.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
it's just that sometimes,because of fear of rejection or feelings wont be returned that's why some just keep what they feel alone.some also are afraid to lost the friendship when this is revealed.a sad situation..
• India
13 Jul 10
How did your relationship start? how many years of friendship is yours? How is your relation like? there are many questions to answer this like said above. If it's a longtime friendship and understand each other in such a way that even the other person feels the same like you then you can turn your friendship in to love. If at all not so should remain as friends forever. But let the love be expressed first. don't hide it, because sometimes even the opposite person may be having the same feelings like you what you are feeling and keeping quite thinking that whether to express it or not.Anyone should come forward. So without delaying go forward if it is same as you thought well and good happy if not don't break up and get disputes between both of you just continue as best friends. If you wont express and even the other do the same time may come that you miss each other life time, even though both of you loved a lot. Then none can do anything.....go ahead....ALL THE BEST FRIEND.
@yunako (74)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
a lot of courage indeed is needed to tell how you feel for your friend.maybe by doing so, he may felt the same way too and doesnt have the guts to tell his feelings.