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I would recommend three sites to help you; Digg.com, Reddit.com and StumbleUpon.com. You can submit your sites as well as your blog posts and get some instant traffic. It will also help provide some links back to your site. Also look up article submission directories and write and post some articles with backlinks to your site.

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Just keep at it as your blog gets bigger your keywords will get bigger and bigger making your index value go up also you can have sites you are part of link to it like this site and your other social networking sites. You don't need your blog to link back to mylot or facebook actually it will increase your blogs position if you don't.