flirting
By pauliey
@pauliey (9)
Japan
July 13, 2010 4:28am CST
The art of flirting and secrets of body language. There's an old adage that say thee are plenty of fish in the sea, but for most singles that sea can resemble a trickling strem when it comes to finding a single and available partner. Flirt is abasic instinct, one of the key elemens of courtship. Most people would rather be dead than let someone they're attracted to know that they're interested. We are not only mortified by the prospect of signaling interest but will often look the other way and avoid eye contact.
2 responses
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
HI pauliey!!
Welcome to mylot!
I think that flirting is an art. If you get to be good at it you would be able to get anyone you want and can increase your self esteem. I'm not saying that you flirt all the time and cheat on your partners. Flirt in a healthy way.
@pauliey (9)
• Japan
14 Jul 10
You are right. I'm trying to convince and to teach my poor friend that women tend to overestimate men's ability to pick up on non-verbal flirting cues, with women putting men's lack of response down to disinterest insteadof seeing it for what is it, an ability to pick up on even the most obvious signal. For my friend is it not good news when he's trying to get the woman of his dreams. So, being is friend, I'm giving him (my side of it) (and anyone on this site) the ins and outs of flirting signals that will break down and help to decipher when she's interested, when she's not, and when she isn't all she's got on her mind.
@forcedbyaries (43)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
It's because everyone is scared of losing face from a right-out rejection...
Flirting is a way for them to check things out without hurting their ego...
