Decency is lacking in the behaviour of girls Now..?
By siliguri
@siliguri (4241)
India
July 13, 2010 5:16am CST
What i seeing now the girls are become uncivilized then boys. It is very hard to find the girls who are well mannered not showing attitude but talking about boys you can expect a decency from them. What happens to the girls today why there is sudden change in their body language?
8 responses
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Hi siliguri! You can't help the way other's act, only the way
that you do. I know that when I was young I wasn't an 
either! But, I do know that nowadays some girls are really out of
control. Even when I was young we didn't behave anywere near as badly
and as rude as the young girls do now and in some cases it is disgusting!
But, it sometimes doesn't always change with age! I have a neighbor
who is still acting the same way she did 30 years ago (she is a nasty
piece of trash and is in her 50's and dresses like she is still in
her 20's)! So, just be you and act like you feel is right and you will
be fine because as I said some people just never grow up and learn!
either! But, I do know that nowadays some girls are really out of
control. Even when I was young we didn't behave anywere near as badly
and as rude as the young girls do now and in some cases it is disgusting!
But, it sometimes doesn't always change with age! I have a neighbor
who is still acting the same way she did 30 years ago (she is a nasty
piece of trash and is in her 50's and dresses like she is still in
her 20's)! So, just be you and act like you feel is right and you will
be fine because as I said some people just never grow up and learn!1 person likes this
@redhotpogo (4401)
• United States
13 Jul 10
I totally agree. Girls stop trying to be like American girls. People will lose all respect for you.
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@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I think, decency will depend on one's culture. I agree that girls should wear proper attire (No to super mini skirts.) but I do not agree to limiting the girls freedom to talk. Talking is a way of communicating and a response to the one being said.
Also, there are indecencies with boys. Talk about boy and boy relationships?
I think that we should also not judge decency by generalizing gender or a group of people as every individual is different whether it is a boy or a girl.
Do you agree?
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I agree with you siliguri, there have been a lot of changes in how girls dress and talk. We have become more liberal and free which is good and bad. Please understand, however, that there are some girls who act "indecently" because the boys wanted them to act that way. Think of it as a competition. The boys tends only notice more the girls who are more liberated and attractive. And of course the attention is very addictive.
@Jotomy (6322)
• India
13 Jul 10
when we gone to zoo recently i saw many college going girls and boys there. While having lunch we are observing one of the group people on the opposite side, all are making fun and laughing and there is one girl who is acting too much and her dress is not good, we observed for almost one hour she is doing all nonsense with one boy, i just got angry i got up and slapped her, all my family members and that group members got shocked, but i told them/her this is not the way to behave, better behave yourselves, you girls behave like girls not like animals and you guys don't take an advantage of the girls freedom. I think this is a lesson to my sister in laws children too.
@benhail10000 (121)
• India
13 Jul 10
yes i agree with you. girls are becoming very uncivilized these days. they think that it is a great thing to talk bad and being that way makes them feel mature and grown up. but they are wrong. what do you think?
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
13 Jul 10
Siliguri! Today seems to be
your day of disillusionment with girls in general!!!!!!!!
Anyhow , in answer to your question-- I feel this is a sad spillover of the past when there were greater number of cases of eveteasing than Adamteasing. It is also a stupid way of showing their equality with men. I cannot understand or forgive this bad behaviour and would feel the same way a s Jotomy does though I would not react the same way. And as someone had rightly pointed out the current day films show this arrogance in a big way and women behave as badly as they can in such films.So, the current day youngsters tend to think they are being smart if they behave like what is seen in some idiotic films.
your day of disillusionment with girls in general!!!!!!!!
Anyhow , in answer to your question-- I feel this is a sad spillover of the past when there were greater number of cases of eveteasing than Adamteasing. It is also a stupid way of showing their equality with men. I cannot understand or forgive this bad behaviour and would feel the same way a s Jotomy does though I would not react the same way. And as someone had rightly pointed out the current day films show this arrogance in a big way and women behave as badly as they can in such films.So, the current day youngsters tend to think they are being smart if they behave like what is seen in some idiotic films.
