How can we make a friend feel our care to a friend who doesn't reply or respond.
By rorisricha
@rorisricha (732)
India
July 13, 2010 7:12am CST
Generally any friendship we feel that there should be equal responsibilities but if it's only one cares and the other doesn't care either for our mails or messages and keep saying that busy or no time....generally where ever iam I generally keep giving one message per day definetly...never miss until and unless no other way and my frined doesn't reply or never sends me message or mail....it takes months to receive a call by my friend....how can we make them feel our care, affection....how much we care for them,I want to make him to feel that my friend misses my care and needs me in life....how to..
3 responses
@redheadrebel (67)
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26 Jul 10
Maybe they don't want to be your friend?
It's hard, I know, but maybe it's time to move on. They're not worth your trouble.
@paulybg (126)
• China
23 Jul 10
In my opinion, not reply your message or mails could not mean that he does not care about you. Maybe he is just too busy these days. And more important, from you mails and message to him, he knows that you are OK these days, so he know you do not need his care very much these days. Maybe come across some problems, he would still to be the first one come to be with you.
If you really need to know if he cares about you or not. My advice is next time when you come across some problems, you could try your friend. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
@rorisricha (732)
• India
23 Jul 10
Hi, thanks a lot for your valuable response...as u said thinking so only am in contact mean regular...with him...but sometimes even if months no reply feel hurt like why to waste time for the one who doesn't have time for me in his calendar.....anyway thank you and have a nice day...
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I think the best way is still to text them and tell them that you will be there when they need you. In this way, they will know that they can still run to you in times of trouble. Your friend may be having some problems now that she wants to be alone, that's why she is not texting/replying.Just be patient, and keep being a true friend to her.
@rorisricha (732)
• India
14 Jul 10
Hi, thank u for your valuable suggestion....Yeah that's the thing even I too feel...some day in his life he is going to understand that there is a friend who always cares for him.....I do keep staying touch.....thank u......
