Back-Stabbers?

i think the common is stealing boyfriend/girlfriend, also stealing job or work promotion. well, i'm quite lucky not to have backstabber friend.

Honestly it was too hard to deal with them that you can't determine how would you trust a friend. Even if I am seeing them that they are not true friend to me I am trying my best to coordinate with them for the sake of friendship. In fact I am pretending to myself that I am blind not to see their wrong doings behind me. It is a fact that I am afraid that I will lose a friend. But now I already learned that number of friends is not important but a true friend that you can always trust. Be with the person that is willing to accept and understand who you are.

I hate them. I dont easily meake friends with anyone, I have a few friends and I make sure that all of them If they have problem with me they tell me about it so I can at least defend myself or do something about it. I hate people who tells other people first and then smile when they are in front of you. It seems like they are enjoy runing your reputation than trying to fix it by confronting you. They are not worthy of your time and attention... I know a lot of those people from my in laws..

I don't have perfect experience with a back stabber. But yes during my college days one of my friend did such a thing which hurt me a lot. Sometimes I feel why people break your trust, why they play with your emotions, why they make a fool out of you. Till today I am not able to understand why people backstabb you. If there was anything he could have come to me and discuss the thing.This thing still pains me. But what to do?

I have a friend(well ex friend) who is a liar, very conniving, manipulative, and very cleaver with turning my words around to make me think that i m crazy. She turned new friends of mine that she met through me against me. I guess they were never my friends either. I m a very forgiving person and will bend over backwards for people. My ex friend and i have been down this road three years prior. She said she was sorry at the time and i forgave her. Si i guess i m to blame for this one. I was warned but was in denial. I guess i shouldn;t worry but it hurts really bad especially when someone comes into your life and screws everything up for a second time. I let my (ex) friend of 5 years (who keeps getting kicked out different homes and losing job) and another friend of mine of 1.5 years stay with me. Well, i m very caring but not too much of a push over.