How do you feel when you meet your ex-girlfriend or boy friend?
By pljjof1989
@pljjof1989 (19)
India
July 13, 2010 8:36am CST
there are great chances of meeting our ex lovers,again at other places in an unauspicious times.how will we lovers must confront them?
10 responses
@thunder915 (180)
• India
28 Jul 10
Everyone feels something, after all it's your ex-boyfriend. To my opinion I feel some shyness in front of my second lover. Off course past feelings will refresh when happen to meet in front. Frankly, I will talk to him.
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Hello pljjof1989,
It depends on they parted...was it on good terms... then after a few years it should like they were good friends if they meet.
If they parted on bad terms... then there be no reason to meet or say hello.
Why feel all hurt all over again especially if you were the one dumped....
even if you have a new significant other.
This is not easy question to answer and everyone thoughts and feeling will be different according there circumstances and how the relationship evloved over th years and how many years they were together and there ages.
Thanks and have a great day!
Sincerely Unique16
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I feel nothing if I meet an ex-boyfriend, specially when I have already moved-on and dont love him anymore. But if I still have feelings for the ex, its another story, I would feel really awkward. Specially when I see that he has another girl with him, and me alone. tsk tsk. I hope that would not happen, it would be embarrassing.
@mcabiles (44)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
It depends on how you feel about her or him. I just saw my ex wife last week and I can say I never thought I still have feelings for her. I just broke up with my gf actually and if ever I see her again now, I don't know what to say. Combination of love and anger is what i have for her right now.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
There is nothing wrong with it,and,the possibility of meeting our past love/ex-lovers maybe exciting or full of tensions.
That depends on the situation and how your past relationship ends or how happy you were during your time before.
I also had the chance to meet my ex,we are both married now and had our own family.
I can say that,there is this excitement to see each other,not for the feelings we've shared before,but,excited to know what's life had gone through after many years that we haven't heard any news from each other.
Have a good day always
@hanagi (390)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
I don't feel awkward but I have this very sensitive feeling about him. I really take it seriously his jokes and everything he says and I got affected easily. I tried not to be affected but I can't help it, we still end up quarreling because of that. I don't know why we end that way but we surely can't get along that very well.