Some people likes to criticize other people a lot they don't look at themselves
By clouds0327
@clouds0327 (1389)
Philippines
July 13, 2010 8:45am CST
I hate it when people are fond of pointing out other people's mistakes or shortcomings. It's like when you are around them you feel uncomfortable because I get tired of limiting what I do or my actions because they might find something wrong and then broadcast it to their relatives and friends. I know I am not perfect, I also have bad attitude or I sometimes criticize people at the back of my mind, but I don't spread it around and make the other person in an awkward position. I mean we are only humans and we are not perfect.. so we should understand if the person is like this and like that, they are not born to just please your standards. And each of us have their own negative traits that we wouldnt want other people spreading around unconcerned people just to feel good about themselves.. They should look at themselves first... Or never do that at all. If they have issues with you that bothers their everyday life then they should at least confront you right not spread it around other people who doesnt even know you.
5 responses
@lacieice (2060)
• United States
13 Jul 10
Hello cluids
I have to agree with you. People are way too judgemental these days. I have just learned to keep my mouth shut and keep my opinions to myself. My husband is the worst...he's always telling me I should have said to this way, or not said it at all, or telling me exactly what to say, like I'm some dumb kid. I'm not dumb, but he makes me feel that way.
@sanityeradicated (63)
• United States
13 Jul 10
It's okay for me if someone points out my mistakes in a non-degrading way. But I believe that I also deserve some respect. Okay, I may be doing wrong but there's no need to let it spread like wildfire. If only people agree with my paradigm, then I believe the world will be a better place. Really.
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
13 Jul 10
Sorry I don't share your sentiments. =( I really don't mind people pointing out my mistakes. I don't take offense because I know, it's just their opinion, and it gives me an idea on what I should do to improve myself. I listen to what they say then analyze it if applies to me or if I'm really wrong or what I did really was a mistake. If they're correct, I'll rectify my mistake. If I know I'm right, then I stand by what my decision. This is why I appreciate if people correct me, because this is how I learn. =)
