I hate myself for being like this...!!
By Gany15k
@Gany15k (1673)
India
July 13, 2010 9:53am CST
I'm very sad...I hate myself 
...I don't know how to control this feel..I told that I saw a movie on Sunday...The movie is "Madrasapatinam"...It is a love story..I have seen lot of love,romantic films..There will be a good feel..When I reach home I think about those movies and will feel sad if the story doesn't had a happy ending...The movie "Madrasapatinam" also has the same sad ending,that was very practical and touching..Now two days passed since I saw the movie..I can't able to stop thinking of that movie in my office too..I'm very sad..After all it is a movie but I still don't understand why I'm like that...I already booked for that movie again on coming Saturday..I can't wait to watch that again...
The same happened when I saw a movie "Kalloori"..It is a love that comes between two friends..They each loved each other..When they are about to express a accident will happen and that girl will die..They won't propose also..How I felt for this ...only God knows...I'm just blaming myself for being like this...
I want to forget this....I can't control..please any suggestions...? Have you experienced like this...?
...I don't know how to control this feel..I told that I saw a movie on Sunday...The movie is "Madrasapatinam"...It is a love story..I have seen lot of love,romantic films..There will be a good feel..When I reach home I think about those movies and will feel sad if the story doesn't had a happy ending...The movie "Madrasapatinam" also has the same sad ending,that was very practical and touching..Now two days passed since I saw the movie..I can't able to stop thinking of that movie in my office too..I'm very sad..After all it is a movie but I still don't understand why I'm like that...I already booked for that movie again on coming Saturday..I can't wait to watch that again...
The same happened when I saw a movie "Kalloori"..It is a love that comes between two friends..They each loved each other..When they are about to express a accident will happen and that girl will die..They won't propose also..How I felt for this ...only God knows...I'm just blaming myself for being like this...
I want to forget this....I can't control..please any suggestions...? Have you experienced like this...?5 people like this
19 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
13 Jul 10
Gany sweetie, it is normal to feel that way, you know.
Might i ask that you do not go and watch that movie again.
It will make you feel sad again.
And please remember it is only a movie, it is not real life, okay.
You will be just fine.
Now smile for me, okay.
TATA.
Might i ask that you do not go and watch that movie again.
It will make you feel sad again.
And please remember it is only a movie, it is not real life, okay.
You will be just fine.
Now smile for me, okay.
TATA.
But I hate myself..I blame God for making me like this...@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
13 Jul 10
Should we have this little talk again, Gany?
We don't hate sweetie, not even ourselves.
We cannot blame God for everything, you know.
Everything happens to and with us for a reason.
What that is i really don't know.
Now smile, before i cry or something, okay.
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
13 Jul 10
This never happened with regional movies---the first and last movie which moved me emotionally was TITANIC...i have seen it infinite number of times and huuuh it is such a great movie with a love story inscribed 
.I think you should watch a couple of comedy movies to get over this sad feeling---hope it works.great day.
.I think you should watch a couple of comedy movies to get over this sad feeling---hope it works.great day.@sunnycool (12714)
• India
14 Jul 10
I would watch it for sure--- was it released into telugu and tamil simulataneously?
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Why in the world would u want to see it again??? U need to stay away from things that depress u.
@1hopefulman (45120)
• Canada
13 Jul 10
You obviously were touched by the movie you saw. Maybe the story has some parallel to your own life or to things that you aspire to in your own life or you just like the beautiful actress. There is no need to feel bad about it, just enjoy watching the movie again.
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
15 Jul 10
I have had this similar type of expression or feelings which u have mentioned after seeing some movies....
It includes both English and Tamil..
"KAADHAL"
I presume that u have seen this movie...I was studying 12th when i saw this movie..
Really i was into something that i cannot control my mind and get diverted from that movie for a week time..
The best ever movie which has a very great feelings..
I saw that movie for many times later..
Similarly 'Babel' 'Crash' the best hollywood movies, which will make u to think about it for a week's time ..Later u will discover to normal mode of life...
@kaka10 (178)
• South Africa
13 Jul 10
I know how you feel, I think the problem is that you always put yourself in those peoples places and get too emotionally involved in it. Maybe you not over a past love interest? and you see your situation in it
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Yes but not with a movie, I only watch movies that have a happy ending. But the bachelorrette is making me upset because the guy who she loves has disappointed her. it really makes me sad because i liked that guy and hoped he would end up with the girl and now it wont happen.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
15 Jul 10
I think your feeling is very normal. It makes me think of a movie I saw as long ago as 1957 where two lovers were going to meet at the Empire State Building in New York and the girl was late and ran out into the street and was struck by a car. The theme song is called An Affair to Remember and it still makes me sad to hear it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2H6PKWn5208&feature=related
@commanderxo (1494)
• Canada
20 Jul 10
It's obvious that you are a very compassionate man, and that is something that you should be proud of. Don't ever feel that you should or need to apologize for your true feelings. IT IS a wonderful quality that ALL men should possess and what makes for being a true human being. Be grateful for those feelings my friend.
Cheers;
cdrxo
@common_man (1799)
• India
13 Jul 10
Hi gany,
First of all let me tell you never hate yourself.
Now coming to your discussion, the people who get so much involved in movie and gets emotionally attached to one of the character(sees himself as hero)actually lives the life of that hero. So if hero gets heroine, such people feel they have got their dream girl(Because they see their dream girl in heroin and themselves in hero) Such people feels sad when picture has sad ending.
You seems to be one of those categories. The best way to deal with such situation is to remember that what you are watching in a movie is just a story, you are watching and not part of that story/movie. Learn to stay detached when watching movies. Do not think so much about movie afterwards. Go with friends to watch movie and after movie discuss movie with friends, so your emotions will come out and you will be able to manage not thinking about movie afterwards.
Best Luck!
@akhileshnigam (494)
• India
14 Jul 10
movie story is imagine story no real life story ,so keep smile no think about movie story ,think positive &spend your time. is needy work mix you your freind circle.
@ruguokeyidehua (3)
• China
13 Jul 10
uhm...I don't know,maybe...what about going to see a film with a happy ending?
@Bhadine (594)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
for people like us who are very emotional, it is normal to feel that way every time we see love story movies with tragic endings. That is why, on my part I am not watching these kinds of movies because I will just feel bad. I prefer to watch love story with comedy movies because at the end of the day, I will be smiling, feel inspired and ready to face the next days.
@ilann1 (372)
• Israel
14 Jul 10
I can't believe some people are like this, I don't think you should hate yourself, I think you should be proud of yourself because you're a unique person with such strong feeling about movies, it just means that you are very sensitive and it's very nice to be sensitive. Although I can see why it bothers you as you may see it as over sensitivity but still I think it's very special characteristic and you should not hate yourself for it.
