When you find out that something has changed, what will you do?
By maucute
@maucute (979)
Philippines
July 13, 2010 11:08am CST
This topic is opened based on experiences and what I saw around.
Situation is like this:
You two have been together for more than 3 years, let's assume that but to reach a year can already be considered as a serious relationship. Then suddenly one event just happened which trigger more arguments but one thing you have noticed is that your partner has changed a bit. In this case, he gets excited going out with his friends, do all the planning. In short, instead of the relax homebody guy, he turned into a guy who loves going out, it's like he has break free from something.
Need your inputs and thoughts to share. :)
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6 responses
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
13 Jul 10
At some points in life, people would want to try new things. Though it could be a red flag, the best solution is to talk to your partner about it. Why not let him do the things he wants to do and set rules. You can see if he is really yours or not. Also, it is healthy for couples to take a break from each other at least once every week. The more you stay together all the time, the more you lose interest on your partner. Being not together gives you the time to think about each other and miss each other plus a release from the stress of being together.
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@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
19 Jul 10
First of all i never been in a relationship, but the best thing to do is to talk to someone if you observe he or she had change. Maybe in some sort you had done something wrong or you are lacking something that he or she found on other people. When this things happen, I always thought that a certain person is boring so his or her partner find happiness on other people. Maybe this is the real problem. If it is bothering you, a little talk is needed and I hope he or she will be honest of what he or she really feels to solve it.
@1anurag1 (3576)
• India
13 Jul 10
thanks for the response.
i think let him do what ever he is doing. dont point out much. may be there is a change needed. yes if you feel the problem for long with you. you could ask him and discuss with him with calm. May be you could get the better solutions.
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
13 Jul 10
I feel his love is fading. you need to make him understand that he is the love of your life. There must be some reason for him to act in a different manner. You nned to find out and communication is the only way how you can bring things back on track.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
15 Jul 10
maybe now that he is in a serious relationship even more ahah bcs i already think that 3 years is serious already maybe he feels more relaxed to show all his sides to his gf thats maybe why suddenly he is all happy and going out much^^ anyway is normal people change a bit as long as you are knowing them better and better^^ thats normal and also is good to see it ^^ that way means you know him well^^
