Is being beauty or handsome dangerous?

I hope by now you might have experienced the worldly nature. I feel we are living in a very jealousy world. If you are poor,there is a problem. If you are rich there is a problem. If you are beautify then too there is a problem. If you are handicapped them too there is a problem. This indicates that people here, have all negative attitudes and thoughts. They do not have a positive approach towards life.... Am I right...??? Yes being born beautiful is HIS wish not ours,,,,, You are luck for you haven't faced any problem.....

yes its is sometimes...i dont boast about myself but this is an observation. i moved to mumbai after marriage. One of my neighbours had a crush on me. She told my wife that all the girls in her college (which was near to our house)say that he is so handsome. My wife became very posessive about me. Then one day a girl from my opposite building on the fouth floor used to watch me when i used to go to work. She told this girl who told my wife. My wife became more protective now. She never used to let me ride the bike without a helmet. She never used to allow me to remove the helmet aswell. But i dont ever think i created any enemies.

being handsome does not seem to be dangerous (I am not facing any problems , you know, ) But in my opinion women may face some problems when they are very beautiful. Your relative's case is exceptional I think. According to me handsome men enjoy a lot of benefits and they don't face any serious problems. Are you worried Johnpillai?

Being good looking brings so much advantages to a person. In social affairs looks is very important because some people judge you base on your appearance. That's why we have to look very presentable. Nonetheless when people give effort to knowing you, looks have lesser importance than character.

Hi johnpillai, Being beautiful and exceptionally handsome can only be dangerous if it is used to take advantage and hurt somebody else. Being beautiful and handsome got lots of benefits. Beautiful women and handsome men get more job opportunities they have more career advancement. They are the object of desire of many women and men. It is not difficult for them to have a love partner in life because they are very desirable and pleasing to the eye. Now as for the downside of being beautiful and handsome. They are the object of jealousy and envy. They are the object of obsession because of that, in some cases, they get stalked.

I don't think this is big problem, people feel differently when they are too beautiful/ handsome which is the main problem for all these. If they behave as normal as others it won't create any problems.

i once went out with a gorgeous man,he was stunning and all the girls fancied him,but because i was going out with him the girls hated me,coz they wanted him,i used to dirty looks and snide remarks all the time

Hi, This is not the norm. Yes, people can be jealous of someone because of the way they look or if they or more sucessful than they are, but not to the point of the person not wanting to not be born; he must me something beautiful. All movie stars are not beautiful outside, but if they have a beautiful heart, then I think they are beautiful. Like Orpha, I don't think she is beautiful on the outside,but boy is she beautiful on the inside. Why do these people hate or harrass your cousin so much? Is he not beautiful on the inside as well? I picture him not being able to leave his house except in disquise or else he has to run for his life. Listen, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. If I saw your cousin I may not think he's so beautiful. If that is your picture here, I think you are beautiful and we women love to think beauty. I don't know how old your cousin is, but if he is old enough to make his own decision maybe he should think about relocating to a more comfortable area, because it seem that he is very distressed over this matter of being too beautiful.

Ah, if looks could kill, as the saying goes! It is never wise though to judge a person based on their looks alone. Beauty is truly skin deep. (yes it is a cliche, but oh so true.) Some people are very beautiful, no matter what they look like on the outside : )

I think it is lucky for he , because he is so handsome and smart that many girls and other people will like him . Do not care about some other persons' jealousness , look down on these people who are jealous on him . He should be confident in himself . do not be bothered by such people . That is my view .

It can be, but most of the time it's wonderful LOL