ooh I feel so desolate and alone

@dawnald (85146)
Shingle Springs, California
July 13, 2010 12:28pm CST
I can't get into my AOL mailbox. It's driving me a little bit nutso. Dang it. I'm a little OCD about my e-mail, I admit it. I check it like every 5 minutes. And now I can't get into it at all. Darn it darn it darn it. So here I am posting a meaningless discussion because I can't get at my mail. Are you all as dependent on your e-mail as I am? What do you do when you can't get there? Heck, I usually get in via my phone when I'm not at my computer, and now I can't do that either. Hellllpppp.... Dawn get a grip, go outside, take a walk. :-) How do you deal with stuff like this?
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• Malaysia
13 Jul 10
i just take a deep breath, turn on the tv, and watch the next episode of 'Ben 10' while leaving the computer on right next to me and trying again and again to log in...
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
I will look for Ben 10 on Netflix.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
Ben 10?
• Malaysia
13 Jul 10
you're so sweet, sweet... and Ben 10 is the bestest cartoon out there since the Power Puff Girls
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@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
14 Jul 10
Hi dawn, Is it only because you can not access your mail that has sent you nutso or something else is working in the inner races of your consciousness? This is, however, a fact that those of us who are addictive to computers and email stuff get sort of frustrated when the system fails you. I am not so dependent on emails like you but when there is similar problem I get grab my mobile and with it try to be in touch with them I am supposed to keep contact. Just cool down and concentrate on other things while you start getting your mails. All good luck.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Jul 10
Oh the only reason I got frustrated yesterday was that I saw two e-mails from friends that I wanted to read and just then my e-mail went down. But it came back up eventually and I survived the horrible experience. :D
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Jul 10
OK maybe I was exaggerating a wee bit. :-) But it was annoying and frustrating for about 1/2 an hour. :D
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
14 Jul 10
Oh saved then!! T thought you are terribly upset and desolate. This , ofcourse, sends you crazy when you are about to read something on line and suddenly they disappear. Like anti climax.
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• Canada
15 Jul 10
Don't use AOL! There are many other, better web based email services.
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• Canada
16 Jul 10
I worked tech support for an American Internet provider back when I worked in a call centre. People used to call us and complain about AOL a lot. We weren't AOL and we didn't support it, of course. Then people would get REALLY angry. I never understood that. I'd never use it myself. I've had a Yahoo! account for years and have never had a problem.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Jul 10
Dumb that they would yell at you for something that wasn't even your product. I have never had a problem with my Yahoo accounts either, but I do get mail from friends who have had their accts. hacked.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
16 Jul 10
Ha, my friends have their yahoo accounts hacked all the time and hotmail deletes all your mail if you don't log in for a long time. GMAIL is OK. But I've used AOL all these years, my family and friends have my AOL acct., why should I change it now?
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
15 Jul 10
It’s a tough one isn’t it? This is a late response so I hope you got to your emails by now! I know how you felt when you couldn’t open your account; it is a really isolating feeling. My husband has been looking into ‘naked DSL’ which means changing all our connections to have the phone run through the Internet; doing this will save us a bit of money every month and we would have free phone calls. I have been delaying it and procrastinating over having it done because it would mean being without the Net for two whole weeks! I could not cope! I don’t what I’m going to do…Hope your emails are up and running by now.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Jul 10
It was up and running within and hour or so. I took a long walk and it was back up when I got back. Two weeks? Well, at least I'd have my work computer...
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
15 Jul 10
I guess my response below is already too late. Good to know that you've already got it up and running.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
13 Jul 10
Well, as i just logged in, for having to wait 3 and a half freaking hours, i get how you feel. It is so hard to get good help and damn service these days.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
It's a rare problem for me. I'm spoiled....
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
13 Jul 10
sorry sorry.
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@dav20b (507)
• United States
14 Jul 10
I know what you mean one time my email program did a site update so I could not get in my email.I was so stressed and when I go on a vaction I stress some times about not being able to check my email so I have to tell my self you need to relax and have some times so just chill.You could do other things while waiting for your email like check out youtube.com or play a online game.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Jul 10
I tell myself that, but myself doesn't always listen!
@dav20b (507)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Well then check out this funny youtube video and maybe it will cheer you up some.Just go to youtube.com and search "Secret agent Xellos" its funny.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
14 Jul 10
Oh yes I do and I do not deal with it lol I get angry with it Hope you got into your Email by now
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Jul 10
I went for a walk and it was back up when I got back!
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
17 Jul 10
Get over yerself Chicky!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
17 Jul 10
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@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
14 Jul 10
The medical field is doing some research on how to treat multimedia withdrawal symptoms. Usually when I can't access my comp I'll fall back on my reading.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Jul 10
In my case, I took a walk to the river...
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
11 Mar 11
Hi. dawnald. I have went through problems as this too before. With my Yahoo account that is. When it takes so long for the email server to load up, I will get irritated. I will also get so impatient too. I then will just go to another website and give it time to get back to its original condition. If I come back and it has still not changed, that is when I will contact Yahoo Customer Care Department. I hope that your AOL Mailbox will load up much better than it is already doing. This is one of the most frustrating issues to go through when you are online. Ughh!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
11 Mar 11
It did eventually get better, but boy, what a pain there for a while!
• United States
21 Jul 10
Yes I depend on my e-mail very much and use it for business as well as personal use so it is essential for me to get my mail. I am not putting down your choice of mail clients or anything but I had very bad experiences with AOL and have never gone back and don't recommend AOL to friends. I use mozilla thunderbird to get my e-mail and sort through it and I love it. I really need a good program to sort my e-mail and keep it in line and thunderbird does that for me. I hope you get yours straightened out because I know how important mine is to me.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
21 Jul 10
I've never heard of that one... As for AOL, I'll probably keep it for my non-personal e-mails and move my friends over to Yahoo...
@blue65packer (11826)
• United States
14 Jul 10
Right now my computer is on its way to be looked at by my brother the computer programer! Since I picked up a virus over a week ago I have to read my e-mail at work on the work computers! I usually won't or have to work weekends so I won't be looking into my e-mail then. I probaly could do it over my cell but I have not figured how I can hook up to the internet! So my time is limited and it sucks! If I wasn't allowed to use the computers at work I would be screwed!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
14 Jul 10
That's no fun at all, hope it's fixed soon....
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
15 Jul 10
Ha! You're even worse than me. I even have 6 or 7 active email accounts that I regularly check. And I also get helpless if I can't get in there. I always have a feeling that I'm missing some important email. Anyway, I hope your glitch is fixed by now.
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
15 Jul 10
I have 1 AOL, 2 yahoo, 1 Hotmail, 1 Gmail and work. I only check the AOL and the work e-mail regularly... Oh yeah, there's sbc also, but I haven't been in that one in forever. Yep, it's fixed.
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
For me I just come back later to check again my emails. Because I know I can not do anything, if its technical problem. So I just watch TV or movie or sleep. LOL. Then come back again to check email. Well I understand you, you are addicted to your emails thats why you feel like this. I am not so nothing to be annoy.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
13 Jul 10
this has happened to me and it IS frustrating, especially not being able to get into mylot! maybe you should take a trip to the library and go on their computer!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
Fortunately, it was just my e-mail and not myLot... And e-mail is back up now. Hooray!
• United States
13 Jul 10
first mistake, aol?? no one around here uses them any more? thought they had finally shut them down? maybe just here? we have comcast and verizon. no problems here in 6 years.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
Lots of people still have AOL mail...
@cynthiann (18602)
• Jamaica
13 Jul 10
How do I deal with stuff like this? Not very well
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
Me either. My friends are in there and I couldn't get to them.
@LeeHolt (433)
13 Jul 10
I always got mine open in another tab, and if for some reason I am not at my computer, I will check them on my phone at any given opportunity :D Is it still not working for you? What is/was the problem with it? Lee.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
It came back up. I suppose it was just down for maintenance or something.
@ehsanji (503)
• Pakistan
13 Jul 10
don't worry, it's going to be all okay. I think there is some problem with your browser's history, all you need is to download CCLEANER, run it and delete any browser history. And yeah, do give a + to 'mysterioususer', as she/he suggested you the best software as far as solving those types of issues is concerned.
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
It's back online after my walk, so I'm guessing it was just maintenance at AOL.
• United States
13 Jul 10
I know exactly how you feel! I mean, I check my email constantly. I can usually get into it, but on the rare occasion that I can't, I flip out. Since I joined myLot and a bunch of other sites, I get so many emails! So, if I don't check and delete them, I'd have thousands of emails in a week. Yikes!
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@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
13 Jul 10
Yeah me too!