Tolerance level in handling lots and lots of your problems...

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
July 13, 2010 6:27pm CST
..i am tired already of living my life's "tug-of-war" situation where in fallen is always than winning. My patience is high in terms of tolerance but there would comes a point where you would be "pinned on the wall". You could not run anymore. I mean we're not a perfect human to handle things like this indefinitely. I've been through from so many serious problems that passed in my life but I know there would comes the worst of all the worst. Now, here comes another big one that challenging my patience. Honestly, I almost give up and surrender. I mean, I was thinking of fighting it in another way around. The only thing that holds in my mind, that doubted me to fight the other way around is I am afraid if I would be successful or not. If I may loss I know for sure it would worsen my problem. How about you guys, how you handle pressure on your problems? Can you share something who knows I could get an idea from your point of view. Your share of course is highly appreciated. Mobhomeir here..
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8 responses
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
i too have encountered so many pressures in life and i almost have given up. i even think of ending my life to end this problems in life, but, one thing that kept me holding on is i allow God to be in my midst especially in times of peril. i have no one to tell all my pains, my problems because i don't want other people to know of my problems. what i did is to cry in the corner and pray so hard to at least ease the burden i am feeling inside.
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@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 10
Whatever your problem is ending life is not worth it. I am glad that you believe in God, and you are saved.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
I understand what you mean guys in fact that's the only mean reason why I am doubtful if I may win or not if I would be going to use another "way" of facing it. Thanks for the enlightenment...and your response guys.. Mobhomeir here..
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• India
14 Jul 10
Many problem involve the people life, so have patience & use his hardwork position is change his time life is very special gift for people.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
You're right my friend. Prayer, patience and hard works are the mean keywords in fighting problems...thanks for responding... Mobhomeir here...
@Shellyann36 (11384)
• United States
14 Jul 10
I am sorry to hear that you are having so many problems. Life can be such a challenge. We as humans are tested time and time again. There is a purpose for all of those tests. One day the rewards will be great. Try your best to keep a positive outlook. It always helps to be able to talk to someone. Getting the feelings off of your chest will make you feel much better. Bottling problems up inside will only lead to feeling worse than what you were to begin with. I wish you luck with all of your life's situations.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Hello my friend. Thank you for the sympathy. I know I could survive this because this is not my first time to handle things like this but now is the worst. Submitting this kind of topic could lessen the burden I had right now though it would just be a sort of advise or moral support. And that's one of what you've commented. Thanks..have a nice day ahead..take care.. Mobhomeir here...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
17 Jul 10
Life is tough and sometimes it is easy to lose hope. When problems start it seems that a hundred pop up at the same time..never just one here and one there. I can't let myself get to the point of hopelessness. I have to see the bright side..it is my defense. It is not always easy but I know if I give up that the problems might overtake me.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
Yes my friend, you have a good and positive attitude I like that. But for me, I guess it is easier said than done. Why? Because I could never tell what would be the heaviness of the problems I may encounter or maybe I am not strong as your are.. Well, "let's cross our finger when we reach the bridge"..(am I saying the right phrase Jenin?) Well, thanks anyway for your respond again..take it easy always and my regards to your family circle... Mobhomeir here...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
18 Jul 10
Very nice! You actually used two very good phrases. The first..cross our fingers...that's what we say when we are wishing for something to happen or for luck. The second....cross the bridge when we come to it....That's what we say when we are not going to worry about something until the time comes when we have to. Of course you are very strong my friend...it's just that the one thing that I have learned from my personal issues that it doesn't matter if you worry or not..the problem still has the same heaviness...for me..it's just better not to worry myself until I have too...crossing that bridge when I get there. Take care friend and I also hope you and your family circle the best.
• United States
14 Jul 10
Life is the biggest challenge we all face, you get things thrown in your face all the time and it is a risk just to get up in the morning not knowing what will happen to you each day but that is what makes who we are to face each challenge, over come what gets us down and make each day count for something special in our lives. To stand up and say this is me and the way I am, how I think and how I feel is the greatest thing in the world even if people don't like it. Everyone has an opinion and most people don't like others opinions because it does not agree with there's but I say so what, does it really matter what someone else thinks? not really. The only opinion that counts is your own, you may not be right sometimes but it is how YOU feel. My x wife used to be so hung up on what other people thought that she had no real opinion of her own which is sad. Life is something special and to be shared I don't think anyone out there could come close to how I feel about it. After being shot in the head twice and still living to tell about it, something is watching over me and I am here for a reason but I still do not know what or why but I face each day with a smile and take what is given.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
An inspiring testimony my friend. Life is like a huge stage and we are playing different kind of roles. Experience counts much. If you know how to handle and manage your life's challenges these would make your stronger and stronger for another round of challenges. Thanks my friend. Glad you showed up here after hibernating... Mobhomeir here...
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@jennyze (7028)
• Indonesia
14 Jul 10
I admire you for your patients. I am not a patient woman, I am so moody. So when I could not bear it I would fight, and if I lost I accepted it. I don't know what is your problem, but I guess fighting it once in a while is okay. And if the problem gets worse, talk it with someone you trust and pray. Every problem has a solution, we just need to find it, even if we have to bend to solve it.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
14 Jul 10
You're right Jen, I like what you said. Thanks for that. I guess I am just being played by the TIME. Patience is the main keywords here to survive until TIME got bored of playing with me and would give me what I am always wishing; to break-away this trials... I appreciate that Jen..thanks Mobhomeir here..
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• India
14 Jul 10
well those kind of pressures always do occur. in those cases, i always remember this popular saying from GITA.karmanyeSvadhikaraste ma phaleshu kadaachana..it says that my authority is limited to actions and fruits are at lord's grace. i shall give my 100% in my work. lets leave results to lord. though this is the principle i follow, it sometimes still leave me with pressures. in those cases i try my luck managing multiple tasks as efficiently as possible. i loose my nerves sometimes.
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@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
14 Jul 10
I know how depressing life can be sometimes, but it always gets better. I have a disability and sometimes I think "I just want this to be over, everything is too hard" and then something good happens. They say God will only give you enough problems that you can handle. Sometimes it seems like more than you can handle, but it's usually not. Sometimes it is helpful if you talk to someone about your problems. It helped me a lot! I don't suggest you talk to a friend or someone close to you. I always feel if I tell anyone close all of my problems, they will feel like they should be able to do something. I talked to a therapist for awhile and it was very helpful. She had an unbiased opinion, and I felt I could tell her things I told no-one else. Everyone gets depressed and feels sorry for themselves from time to time, and she understood that it is not a permenant state. Just hang in there, problems usually get better with time!
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
Thanks buddy for the moral support. Yes you're right we have different kinds of problems and I know this is the yard stick of how we stand still in our ground and conviction in life. On my part this is one way (writing here) of lessen the burden i felt. Thanks my friend..I appreciate you for that..have a nice day ahead.. Mobhomeir here..