Gay?

what do you mean my hit? like hit like punching or slapping on the face kind of thing? If this is what you mean then that depends, my dad use to tell me that a GUY should keep his cool with a woman, even if the women is very annoying and deserved to be punched. Its a guy thing to keep his cool in front of a lady, there's a saying that "women deserves to be loved not hurt"

huh I have never heard it put that way. But I don't think it would be considered gay or not I would say that if a guy hits a women it would make them an abuser not necessarily gay.

Its not gay but it is more of an assertion of masculinity. I believe that aggression makes you less manly. Manhood is strength of character not body.