Do you get tired of being NICE?

In short, she is naturally nice. I am also naturally nice. There are people whom I say that I am bad, but they will just nod and disagree with me because they see more of my nice, kind and relaxed attribute. Of course, we all do have our peaks because there are just too many who are abusive. Well, i do not mind them. Why? Because they are not worth of my effort to get mad at them. Just ignore them instead, but never tolerate them.

Looks like your friend is born to be a good-natured person. Someone who's really nice...:D Maybe, when someone really does hurt her badly, that person will see that a nice person person can be dangerous sometimes. They are bad enemies when provoked. But your friend is amazing. She doesn't stoop down to other people's level.

No I dont get tired of being nice because its just a natural part of my personality its not somthing I have to make an effort to be its just how I am. But I do get tired of people taking my kindness for weakness and thinking they can treat me however they like or misuse me, thats when I snap and my anger comes out because I'm the kind of person who will always treat others how I want to be treated and show respect, and I'm not the kind of person who takes advantage of others. so when someone tries to do these kinds of things to me I get really angry. When I say angry I dont mean the kind of anger that will get you into trouble because I normally try to remain rational even in anger, but I will be sure to let the person that wronged me know that I dont appreciate there actions and treatment towards me, and I would most likely distance myself from that person, because I dont like to be around people that bring the bad emotions out of me. Lastly people who are nice do get angry but they dont show there anger until its absolutely necessary, dont be fooled into thinking they dont get upset.

I'd like to think that everyone has a limit. I cannot speak for your friend but based on my own experience, people can be generally nice but there are lines that the people around them should learn not to cross. like with me, I can be really really kind and generous but there is always a limit to it. it's hard to be nice cause most of the people would just take advantage of you.

I try to always be nice to the people that I meet and for the most part I would say that it isn't at all difficult for me. However, there are times that it is a challenge for me because I don't agree with everything that other people say and do. Generally, in my own circumstance, when I come across someone that I find it difficult to get along with, I will remove myself from situations that involve those people that I have a difficult time dealing with.

It's the reflection of her inner beauty. I saw lots of people like this. They are so good that I sometimes feel jealous. I try to be like them. A positive attitude towards life and others always brings respects. but There's nothing good all the time. I bet she also get mad but it's her sense of humor that prevent her to show it off. Revenge always give birth to another revenge...so it's better to take it easily without any words in mouth and smile in face. It's a miracle quality to laugh and forgive everything...God bless to that girl..

I hope to be like that one day. I have to deal with feelings of anger and fear when there is nothing in my environment to warrant it. Intellectually I know that people are not out to get me, or use me to my disadvantage, but my soul seems tainted by this constant nagging of doom and gloom. I have it under control most times, other times I have to really work at it, and there are times it is best to just leave me alone.

I like to be nice and help people but I have found that helping the wrong people has caused me to get walked on so now I am more careful about who I help and how I help them.

I have two sides of me. One where I bottle everything up and don't say anything and then the side when I just. can't. handle. it. I am either pleasant or snapping at people.I often get tired of being both ways. It is not even always the other persons fault that I am snapping at them. I just get so annoyed so easily. I often wish that I was more calm, like your friend. I would love to have such a positive outlook on life.

There are times where I feel frustrated. It seems like no matter how nice I am, I feel taken for granted some of the time. I feel like that me being nice is a one way street a lot of the time and other people that I am nice to, they are not as nice in return. It can be quite the frustrating experience to say the least and I just wonder why I even bother a lot of the times. There are some days where I feel like this. It is a feeling that I think many of us get. Of course, the world is full of people who are not going to be as nice as I am. I have gotten to that realization. Such is life and all that. Still there are times where it is very hard to push on because of that fact. It is just one of those things that you have to deal with and the fact is that even the nicest person will get frustrated at the wrong time. Of course, I'm far from the nicest person but I'm not mean and wicked either.

I think it is very hard to be nice always, I am what you're saying is one of the different type of person. I laugh, I make friends a lot, I am helpful, in short, I am NICE, if you can call it that way. But I am hard headed many times also, so having this kind of attitude I think will not make me a FOREVER NICE, but if I am, I won't get tired being one.

Yes I suppose she does and is the type of person that does not let on. I too have been way too nice and I have to tell you that at some point it really gets to you as a person.

im ALways nice but there are instances that some people abused me for being one.so it depends upon the person who im dealing with.

I am always nice. The trick is trying to find the right people to be nice too and just plan ignore the others. I have seen people get taking advantage of many times. Unfortunately many people out there that love the nice people because they take complete advantage of their generosity. I commend your friend invisiblelady. Your friend just doesn't take things personally. It doesn't go past her surface and the fact that she is nice is truly a great thing. The world would be a better place is more nice people were around.

There really are happy people. They must be feeling bad inside too but their constantly sunny mood will always outpower the negative. It is nice to be with people who are like that. It's not that they don't have problems. They have but they face it with enthusiasm instead of depression. I wish I also could be like that. And yes, I do get tired of being nice. Sometimes I feel I am being plastic already.

If you friend has a genuinely carefree and friendly nature I'd say let her be.Because this is a rare trait in humans.Why bother about asking her to retaliate with others who are unkind to her as she doesn't take such matters to heart.It is indeed a laudable characteristic to keep cool and be pleasant to others irrespective of provocation.I'd say let her be unless she feels the taunts of others.

I am nice but I dont show people that I am nice all the time. Most are abusive when they find out the a person is nice. There are people who will take advantage of you if you are too nice so its not nice to be too nice. Even if you are nice, you also have to let people know that you can be angry too could do something not nice.

I guess nobody is good enough.But if somebody find us nice it's a credit to us. But it's not necessary for us to make an effort to be nice. It comes from within our heart and shows outward. So, i guess being nice is not tiresome. On the other hand, people abuse us if we are nice, that's the tiring part of being nice i guess....

I know some people who are like that but after a while of being around them I always wonder what it is in their lives that makes them so happy that they can always be so nice. I mean I am nice most of the time but there are times when I get so angry that I will say what I want, however I want. Maybe they are just bottling it all up and will explode one day because I don't understand How they can be so nice all the time.